This is a two-part question, so please bear with me.
An…acquaintance of mine is Native American. Cherokee, I think, though I’ve never asked; he tells me often enough though. Anyway he insists on being called “Indian”. I feel - well, it’s a little pedantic perhaps, but I feel the term Indian should be reserved for those from, well, India. To put all my cards on the table, yes, I am Indian, born in India. But I mean, that’s why the Native Americans were called Indians, weren’t they? Someone was confused?
His argument is…well, I’ve never gotten the full gist of the argument, as he’s not very clear about it. But basically it seems to boil down to “The Europeans gave us this name and now it’s too much trouble to change it, and we’ll use it to spite them, too.”
Please note that I do not actually argue with him on this. When he gets on this topic I just smile and nod. (We’re really just acquaintances.) But I can’t help thinking - we’re the Indians.
So that’s part one of my question - am I the one being overly stubborn? I never refer to him as Indian but I never refer to him as Native American (except in this one case) either. (How often does race come up, anyway? For him, a lot. For me, very little, except perhaps when people ask me about my name.)
Which leads me to the second part of my question. He feels that when people ask me, for example, “Where are you from?” it’s incumbent on *me *to emphasize that I am “E. Indian.” Granted, I’ve used that term before, to clarify, but it’s usually a second thought after people ask me “What tribe?” (I don’t look Native American in the least btw. I don’t particularly look Indian, either, though.) So he feels I should be the one to anticipate it and say “E. Indian” while he should freely be able to say “Indian” and have everybody know what he means.
To me that’s a complete WTF. *We *had the name first, not to be childish. I’ll gladly correct people if they guess the wrong one - I mean, I have my own culture, I don’t need to appropriate another - and sometimes I’ll even start right out by saying E. Indian, if I think there will be misunderstandings, but to insist *his *people have a stronger right to the name just gets my goat. The word *India *comes from the Sanskrit word for the Indus river after all. And I don’t see how it’s fair for *them *to appropriate *my *culture in order to get back at some dead white man, either.
So here are my questions, broken down:
**1. Do you think that Native Americans should be called Indian? Not just if that’s what they want, which as I said is their right, but all the time? **I am willing to bend on this one - I feel if people ask for a title, that’s what they should get - but it still rankles the tiniest bit. Even on the “call people what they want” - if I went around demanding to be called “Bharati” (the true name of India) or perhaps “Hindustani” do you think people would do more than give me a funny look? I mean, people yell at me for calling myself “American” and meaning “from the US”.
2. Do you think that Native Americans should be the “default” Indians and those of us from India should just move on?
(Yes, yes, I know it’s a minor issue altogether. Where else do I go for such issues?)