Am I the only one

The operative word is taste. You can also add class and style if you like. The gowns are fine if they are not gaudy. The makeup is fine if it is not overly done. Not too many jewlery pieces also. A woman can look breathtaking if it is done with taste, class, or style.

what amazes is me for example, is how women in general spend so much time on their hair. i swear i do NOT remember the haircuts of the chicks i drool over, i simply do not pay attention to things like that.

it takes me about 1 second to check out a girl’s ass, legs and face and about 70% of my opinion is formed right there. the other 30% is when i see if the surface of her body is toned or flabby. the hair never enters the equation.

This isn’t completely off-topic, but <swerve>, here I go.

Ever notice when the high schoolers are out for prom that, for the most part (IMHO), the girls can often look ravishing, grown-up, gourgeous? (unless they’re chewing gum or you hear them talk :wink: ), and the guys look like little boys with their daddy’s suit on?

Or is it just me?

I’m with you there, brother.

I just don’t like the ‘high maintainence’ look.

Plus, I like a woman with a little meat on her bones.

Me too. An adult woman looking comfortable but cute in jeans, sneakers, and t shirt is awfully hard to improve on.

spooje, that would be “sista”

but I do have a mean case of penis envy, so “brother” was cool as well.

daddy times two, i agree completely. its very rare that a 17 year old guy can have a well-developed muscular body. a guy that watches his diet and exercises will reach peak shape at about age 25. i don’t see any reason though, why a girl can’t look her best at 17.

so at age 17 girls may be 120 lbs and guys 140 lbs … but for a girl that 120 is THE goal, while for a guy the goal may be 200 lbs. more mass takes more time to put on, i think its simple as that.

Let’s move this to Cafe Society.

I agree with you DaddyTimesTwo. I had to take a fair number of photographs of prom queens and kings when I worked as a reporter for small newspapers. Most of the girls looked like gorgeous young women in their finery; nearly every boy looked like a gawky scarecrow who was uncomfortable.