I don’t think this is accurate…though I guess it has to do with your definition of ‘patriot’ and patriotic.
Its our national past time…bashing the government. I think its at the heart of a misunderstanding you have as well. You see, being an America is about being a citizen…and therefore being critical about our government. After all, we (well, those of us who take citizenship seriously) have a stake in things. These folks work for us after all (in theory at least)…so therefore we have both a right and a duty to bitch about them when they fuck up, or do stuff contrary to our wishes. Ironically, we like to bitch when they do what we want them to do at the time as well…we convinently forget this if things don’t go the way we wanted them too. 
Other countries have democracies as well…but the US has the oldest, and ours is a bit different than in other countries as well. Too, we have our own traditions and attitudes. But its not considered unpatriotic (by any but the most idiotic) to criticize the current government, or bash the president…far from it.
Of course, hating the country, as some do, goes a bit beyond the pale…but note that these folks are pretty much the lunitic fringe by and large. All countries have the like.
Two things here. I agree…gods help us, he IS our president. ALL our president, whether we voted for the man or not (I did not). That said, he certainly deserves a measure of our support.
On the other hand however, the man works for US…not the other way around. At least, thats how its supposed to be. So…like any employee, when he fucks up (as he seems to have a true talent to do), its our right, even our duty, to make our displeasure felt…to have our voices heard. True, we SHOULD have made this displeasure felt in the last election…but things were still sufficiently muddled at that time for GW to keep his job. However, note that in the latest Congressional elections, there was a distinct shift in public attitude.
Personally, I think the OFFICE of the Presidency deserves all our respect…while the MAN in that office has to earn the respect. Its not granted.
You are quite correct…as I said, its our number one favorite national past time.
You can pretty much take it to the bank that if a Dem is elected, there will be a large segment of the population that is unhappy (though perhaps not a large segment on this board
), while the same will be true if another Pub is served up.
As others have pointed out, you can’t gage the country by this board. That said though, I think many on this board over rate the degree that the country is in the grip of religious frenzy. We are only a religious nation when compared to the much more secular countries in Europe. Compared to most non-European nations, we are quite secular. Polls aside, I think that most people in the US have a veneer of religion on top, but under they are more secular in outlook than seems the case. IMHO, when people take religious polls in the US, they are saying what they THINK they should say…not necessarily what they actually think.
I believe that, by and large, America’s ARE proud of their country and quite patriotic…its just that this patriotism takes a different form than perhaps you believe to be the case. As I said above, not only is it right for us, as citizens, to criticize our government (they work for us after all), but its pretty much our duty to do so.
Wasn’t going to weigh in on this question, but decided to throw in my two cents after all…FWIW. Take what I say with a grain of salt…my opinions aren’t exactly mainstream either. But…I think the CORE of what I’m saying IS relevent, and its important to understand how American’s think…even if its at a subconsious level…about their country and their franchise.
-XT