It’s nice to know I’m not forgotten.
However, for the record, I’d like to make a distinction: my actual views, on most things, are not really so radical (with one or two exceptions I’m sure someone will come up with) - it’s really more my expression of those views, I think. Fact is, I’ve been known to be quite moderate, even a tad to the right, depending on the subject matter. Not so much around here, though.
To the OP: Patriotism is not defined as “love my leader”. I love my country, I respect the office of the President of the United States. But I think that Bush does not hold that office rightfully. (Dont’ start, different debate, don’t have the time or energy) Therefore I have no respect for him. If I were in a public space and met him in a public way, i would show him the absolute minimum respect possible, just because he does happen to hold that office, however he came to it. It is a separate matter that I find the man himself. along with his veep and many others in his administration abhorrent and his policies…gosh, my adjective barrel isn’t yielding a word sufficient to express my horror at his “policies”. (and may I take this moment to say, regarding Mr. Bush, “Told ya so” - everyone, even my liberal brethren, thought me overly dramatic in my horrified reaction at his taking office. Yeah, well, he lived up to my every expectation, and then some.)
By way of comparison, if I were to have met Richard Nixon or Reagan, two other presidents I had little use for, I would have been very respectful. They were legitimately elected, and Nixon, in spite of his criminal behavior, actually kinda rocked it in some respects. (Reagan might have as well, I just can’t remember anything offhand.)
I am, and always have been, deeply patriotic, my RL lefty buds from decades past would roll their eyes sometimes at my old-fashioned, weepy-eyed patriotism. I think my country has made many mistakes and is certainly deeply flawed, but I believe it really is the most amazing and wonderful country on earth. Which is exactly why I find Bush so horrifying: he has stained my country’s honor and done damage to its reputation in a way no other (real) president has ever come close to doing. He is disgusting.