Bull. But the rabbi’s response is sorta bull, too.
The traditional rabbinical interpretation was that “eye for eye” is figurative, as the rabbi was trying to explain.
But according to traditional Judaism, all of the Tanach (Hebrew Bible) is to be taken figuratively. That includes the Torah, despite what others have said here. It is plain wrong to take the words literally. Any rabbi, no matter how ultra-orthodox, would agree. The level of orthodoxy is simply how strict/literal the words are interpreted, but they are always interpreted.
This idea of old testament=violence and new testament=love is something that some Christians love to propagate; it always seems to be the same Christians that give out the quotes like “G-d does not hear the prayer of a Jew”. I won’t comment any more than that.
I have studied Torah (and Tanach) with several rabbis. Most of them are fairly progressive, which means that they allow us all to make our own interpretations.
I think that “eye for eye” makes sense. Here’s my interpretation:
The passage has to be taken as a whole. Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, etc. means that one must demand justice commeasurable with the offense. Losing an eye is pretty serious; losing a tooth is a minor inconvenience. Punishment has to be balanced. I don’t believe that the passage is meant to be taken literally; in fact, I don’t believe that G-d meant it to be taken literally.
The rabbi’s attitude that it’s meant to be taken figuratively is Jewish doctrine going back at least 2000 years. A Christian who believes that the Old Testament was meant to be taken literally is ignoring Jewish doctrine.
One last note: individual passages from Torah/Tanach should not be quoted out of context. Remember that the chapter/verse divisions were applied much later to the text; regardless of what you believe about the text’s origin, history clearly indicates that chapter and verse were undeniably applied by humans. Given that, you really have to read all the stuff before and after to get a good idea of the point, just as much as you have to read a quote from somebody in context.
The passages, believe it or not, have to do with holiness. I was taught that justice commeasurate to the transgression is a key part of holiness.