In this post I will outline the reasons why creating new human beings is wrong. If everybody followed my moral philosophy, the human race would go extinct. However, I will argue that this is the most preferable outcome for humanity.
David Benatar, in Better Never To Have Been, The Harm of Coming Into Existence, makes the best case I’ve seen so far
against babymaking. It’s a principle he called “Asymmetry.”
Point 3 may seem ludicrous. How can something be GOOD if it’s not good for someone? In support of point 3, I’ll give the example of a married couple who are carriers for Tay-Sachs, a horrible heritable condition whose victims nearly always die before the age of 5 and who suffer excrutiating pain as their physical and mental faculties deterioriate. If they choose permanent sterilization rather than taking the chances of creating a Tay-Sachs baby, I think virtually everybody would declare the absent pains of the never existent child to be “good”, even though that child was not conceived.
In support of point 4, we don’t get particularly worked up over the trillions of possible children that did not become actual and the pleasures these possible children could have enjoyed. In order to avoid bringing in the contentious issue of abortion, I’m referring to all the possible sperm/egg combinations that did not happen. The absent pleasures in this case are “not bad.”
All human lives, virtually without exception, contain some level of suffering within them. Every person who is born is destined to die, and the process of dying can often be a very unpleasant affair. Each death causes several other people to be bereaved. It follows that bringing someone into existence is always a serious harm, and this serious harm could easily be prevented. Vasectomies are only a few hundred bucks and can literally prevent lifetimes of suffering from happening.
The most immediate rejection of this viewpoint is “Why not just kill yourself then?” Suicide can be a rational response to this line of argument, and ones own personal future expected suffering would have to outweigh that to do more harm than good. Once a person is alive, attachments to that person form. A never existent person never forms any attachments and thus it’s better to never be than to be and then commit suicide. Choosing to remain alive and get sterilized could very well have more utility, because it sets an example for others and might prevent even more lives from happening.