Any ex-vegetarians out there?

I consider myself a “flexitarian” or perhaps “meat-curious”. I’ve been 99% vegetarian for ten years now, for no particular reason. Vegetarianism has been good to me. I’m sure without it I would have never discovered my love of cooking and the huge variety of cusines I enjoy- my family are fairly food dull meat’n’potatoes people and vegetarianism stopped me from following them.

But I’m also a foodie, and it seems wrong for me to cut myself off of so much of the wonders of food. So I try to make exceptions for exceptional meat. I’m not going to be cooking hamburger helper on weeknights any time soon, but when I go to a real exceptional restaurant (or, alternatively, some amazing street stand or taco truck) I’ll go for some meat.

Now I’m moving to Cameroon, which is going to be a real challenge. I still can’t picture eating meat on my own at home, but it’s surely going to come up socially. I guess it’s just one more ajustment to make.

Here’s a thread he started about it.

I was vegan for about two years, vegetarian for one. I started as a vegan for health reasons - I lost about fifty lbs eating as a veg. Then I moved from NYC (vegan mecca - it’s so easy to be a vegan there) to Virginia, where it was much more difficult. I had also moved back in with my parents for awhile, pending a decision on where the then-SO/now-husband and I were going to live, and my dad had a habit of grilling…a few steaks on the grill and I was a goner.

I still don’t eat a ton of meat and can easily go without meat for several meals to several days, but if I want to order a steak while out, I order a steak.

E.

I was a fish-eating vegetarian, if there is such a thing. I did it for two years, and started eating meat again when it became too hard to maintain my diet. I moved to a very small town in Colorado, and found it too difficult to find all the foods and specialty products I had grown accustomed to. But I’ll try it again soon. I live in a much bigger town now, and it’s the right thing to do.

Grazie, dude.

I’m sort of coming at this from the opposite perspective; I’ve recently had a marked downturn in my interest in eating meat. I don’t think I’ll ever go full vegetarian, but I can see myself not eating a lot of red meat any more. Chicken and seafood I’m a little less sure of; I don’t like chicken that looks too much like a chicken (I can kind of see where your husband is coming from, WhyNot), and I don’t like any fishy-tasting seafood. I think I’ll probably settle somewhere around where most of you former vegetarians are; eating what I like, and that not including a lot of red meat.

I was a vegetarian for two years or so. It was supposedly because it was healthy, and at the prodding of my then-girlfriend. It ended up being quite unhealthy, avocadoes, cheese and ice cream are a bad diet.

What ended it? The smell of Whataburger! On Christmas eve, if memory serves.

Like Ol’Gaffer I was raised vegetarian. I believe it was mostly my mom’s doing. Anyway my parents eventually went back to meat probably when I was about 7 or 8 but me and my sister refused and told them it was yucky. And the thing that finally got me was … a friend’s McDonald’s birthday party I’m pretty sure that was my first animal meat. How sad is that?

I went vegan to see if I could when I was about 25. I lasted 6 months but damn I missed cheese. Then a few months later I was on a long road trip and I decided to eat what I wanted when I wanted it.

I still wouldn’t mind being a vegetarian but I’ll have to learn to enjoy cooking first, something I hate.

I was a vegetarian for about 10 years. 6 months vegan and decided that just controlled my life. about 7 years no meat products but did have eggs, a bit of dairy, and sometimes lard (only cooking oil in some places in China at that time). When I moved to Japan I added seafood as there just aren’t that many vegetables in Japan.

I gave it up after being married to a carnivore for a couple of years. It was a stressor in a marriage that had too many stressors. One day I decided my marriage was more important than my diet. It’s not like my wife pressured me or gave an ultimatium. Much more that I said “honey, we’re having a rough time and here’s one thing I’m doing on my own volition to take an issue off the table.” That was more than 10 years ago.

I would prefer to be a vegetarian and I’m sure I’d be 10 pounds lighter.

I was veg for some 4 years. Mostly for ideological reasons. Then I came to decide I was wrong. So I changed.

I was a vegetarian for six years for reasons of health and weight loss. At first it worked like a charm. I dropped forty pounds during the first four months, and I went from being a classic couch potato to being able to hike twenty miles in a day, or bike ride one hundred miles. Starting in the fourth year, things started going wrong. I got a cold, soar throat, constand coughing, and those things persisted for eighteen months. I eventually decided that it was probably a weakened immune system due to lack of calcium, iron, and/or vitamin D. For the past year or so, I’ve put small amounts of meat in my diet.

However, I still think that avoiding meat is the key to staying thin and fit, so I follow these general guidelines:

  1. I eat meat not more than once per day.
  2. I never eat a full serving of meat.
  3. Over half my meat is seafood.
  4. I never eat fast food.
  5. I never order meat dishes at restaurants.

In general my meat comes from small additions to dishes, such as pepperoni on a pizza or a small amount of chicken mixed into a burrito filling.

I was a vegetarian for somewhere around 3 years because of a relationship I was in, and the mid 90’s quasi-hippie group I was running with made it easy to keep up with.

I fell off the wagon for a Wendy’s Jr. Bacon Cheeseburger.

Thanks, all, for the interesting responses. Seems to me that meat-eating has some pretty serious hooks into us, both instinctively and culturally.

While this may be true, this thread is not evidence of it. In the OP, you asked for stories of ex-vegetarians, and so you got a self-selecting group of people for whom (as you put it) “meat-eating has some pretty serious hooks.”

If you started a thread asking about current vegetarianism, you would have gotten completely different answers, many of them for people for whom meat-eating has no hooks at all.

WhyNot, you’re right, of course.

I was an ovo-lacto vegetarian for 20 years, and raised my children vegetarian from birth.

Last year I decided to indulge in fresh Salmon on a cruise to Alaska, and it was heaven on earth. I guess I became bored of an exclusively vegie diet, and I continued to eat occasional fish after that. When I began dieting, it was much easier to find convenience low-cal foods that included fish and small amounts of poultry, so I began using those. I still won’t eat a main course of chicken or turkey, but don’t mind small amounts of it in a dish of other ingredients now. Only if I go out to dinner do I have a full serving of seafood. I have not yet bought fish or chicken to cook at home, but may consider using ground turkey in chili.

My kids still prefer veggie: one is 19 and one is 13. My oldest’s experiments with mcchicken mcnuggest didn’t persuade her to eat poultry, and my youngest has no interest in meat of any sort.

I might consider a BLT, but I’m not interested in red meat or pork otherwise.