Once he’s much older you can do some dish feeding, but for right now it should all come from enrichment toys like kongs, or from your hand, for the reason you’ve surmised: she who controls the food controls the pack.
I was looking at the Blue Buffalo, that looks good, like the Solid Gold formula we’re feeding now, I might take a gander next time I’m at Petsmart. With good food, you don’t have to feed as much, so feeding by hand isn’t as time consuming as it might seem at all. For example, according to the Blue Buffalo Puppy feeding guidelines, you’ll be feeding your 1-3 mos. (3-5 mos old) old puppy 1.5-3 (2.5-4) cups of food daily. Premeasure it in a bowl in the morning and you’ll see it isn’t that much. You’ll use half for Kong/enrichment toys (like kibble in a sealed cardboard box with a teeny hole started or something like that) and the other half will go quickly when used as rewards for training the basics. You’ll want to feed him the kibble, but it’s boring to just stand there feeding him, so you’ll end up really upping his learning curve because of all the obedience exercise repetition he’ll be getting. Every time you pass the kibble bowl on the counter, snag a handful, call him to you, praise and treat for coming, ask for a sit, praise and treat, use the food lure while asking for a down to lure him into down…
There seems to be a golden month in puppydom where they are just the smartest dog ever and they learn so fast you almost run out of things to teach them. Consistency and patience for the inevitable occasional blank looks are key. With whippets, I get the blank look a lot. Especially with the command, “Libelula, get OFF the table!” 
Teach sit, down, settle, leave it, go crate, potties, and a fun trick like shake (high five, paw, whatever), and people will be dumbstruck with awe at your super-dog. Teach your bf what the hand signals and commands look and sound like, and be consistent so he doesn’t confuse the dog.
Definitely be consistent and keep up the training, as he’ll go through an adolescent fear/anxiety stage (check out Monks of New Skete for more info) where much of that training can be “forgotten” if it isn’t maintained. Lots of little training sessions–just like “real kids,” everything is a learning opportunity. Which can be exhausting, but worth it.
Practice vet exams (opening the mouth, spreading the toes, lifting the tail, examining inside the ears, everything but --eek–thermometer insertion, because he’ll learn that nothing bad happens when these things happen, so when you take him to the vet and they happen, but you’re relaxed and petting him and just chatting, he’ll be less anxious) tooth brushing, ear cleaning, toenail clipping, and break up the training session with soft loving massage. Touch him everywhere and give him treats, so he won’t grow up to be sensitive and snappy about any area.
Once he really trusts you, that you’re the leader, and he’s relaxed into that, you might be able to pick him up and hold him on his back like a baby, head on your shoulder. Not useful for anything, and once he’s full-grown you won’t be able to hold him for long, but damn, what a warm fuzzy feeling in your heart. And people really get a kick out of seeing a big ol’ doggie baby.
The Basic Kong Template on that site is pretty much the same as mine–make sure it is something really high value (cheese, beef liver, sausage) jammed so tight into the little hole that even after they’ve got everything else out there’s still that bit he can’t resist and must keep chewing. The only difference is I dribble a little honey in to sort of coat the inside, as it’s supposed to have antibiotic properties, dunno if it matters, but they like it.
Y’know, feel free to e-mail me if you ever have any questions or want to brag about him. My kids have their own imagestation albums, it’s a great way to share pics with online family and friends…no…must resist…can’t resist…aaahhh…Tahoe’s Album, Bélu’s Album.
So here’s the really important question now:
What’s he going to be for Halloween? 