Harsh it may sound, but poker is about detecting and exploiting weaknesses in your opponents. One of the basic tools of a serious poker player is his ability to cause his opponents to make mistakes.
I have posted a few tips on the board here … but basically because I don’t really expect that anybody will actually follow up and use them, and particularly, use them against me … and also a small altruistic factor, intended mainly to show that casual players who don’t intend to devote a great deal of time to learning to play poker should be sure to play for small enough stakes that they don’t get hurt financially by good players – I think most of the people who click the links to Nash and ICM will be surprised by how complex this easy game actually is … and then will quickly forget about it.
When I am playing, I don’t educate my opponents; I try to make them play worse, not better. I will heartily and sincerely congratulate the guy who sucked out with his two outs and tell him how well he played the hand, and I will tear into the guy who is berating him for his poor play. One of my favorite lines: “Just once I’d like to get a lesson from the guy who won the pot instead of from the loser.”
When a good player says “nh”, it does indeed frequently translate to “Please don’t leave while you still have money. I’ll do everything I can to make it fun for you to lose it all.”
You guys don’t really want somebody like me in your game … but if you start playing for money I’ll be glad to give you some lessons … just keep in mind that the lessons you learn may not be the ones you thought you had signed on for. ![:wink: :wink:](https://emoji.discourse-cdn.com/twitter/wink.png?v=10)
PS: It can be very difficult to get the correct “tone” across on the internet. Please keep in mind that this post is meant to be educational, not egotistical … I am not a world-class player, I am a workaday grinder and part of my skill set is the ability to identify players at the table who are better than I am so I can (do my best to) avoid being outplayed by them.
Oh, and yes, the “shove or fold” thing is one of the flaws of No Limit Hold 'em. It was a dead game for many years (because of its flaws) and only made a comeback because of the TV exposure. The only reason the pros play it now is because that is what the guys who see it on TV want to play
The big money working pros don’t sit around and play NLHE with each other, they play high Limit mixed games like HORSE or Triple Draw … but when a casino host calls the poker room and says “Mr. Whale is leaving LA on his private jet. He has wired in $500,000 and he wants to play No Limit.” the poker manager gets on the phone and by the time the plane lands there is a big NL game going with an empty seat. Limit Hold 'em is a much more “fair” game (a better balance of luck vs skill) so that an unskilled player has a decent chance to have a winning session now and then, whereas in NL he will just about always lose to the skilled players.
The TV show The Big Game PokerStars is putting on lately has some very interesting stuff going on. I recently saw Vanessa Rousso win a pot of around $90,000 and mention that it was the biggest pot she ever won. Also heard Daniel Negreanu talk about how he has been studying up on how to play NL cash games as opposed to tournaments – cash games and tournaments are very different animals. I think it’s the best poker on TV now … and you get to see just how the pros tear up the amateurs.