Someone I want to talk to but is almost impossible to have a rational conversation with, they just can’t be called to account or take responsibility for ANYTHING. It gets kind of tiresome, but funny too sometimes(they blamed a fetus once for their lack of a nationality).
If you do not conform to their warped word use and accepted scenario(kinda like Stalin but with no power) they start throwing out ad hominems accusing you of being on drugs, or mysterious enemies are behind your actions playing you like a puppet against them. :rolleyes: They won’t accept you have opinions of your own volition, it is always someone behind you easier for them to hate or enemies etc.
If you press on then they do a sort of “Gish Gallop” but throwing out blame instead of cites, it is a ruse to get you to try and address them individually wasting time and exhausting you(the real goal). Eventually they will just get to blame for totally unrelated issues or perceived faults(Your friend dropped a pizza one time!).
This is a consistent personality trait extant at least thirty years. It is impossible to avoid the delusional topics because it is all over the place.
“I don’t know why they accused me of being fat”
“Because you are clinically obese at 1,753 pounds?!”
"WHAT! You know I’m big boned, and I had to spent two years eating greasy food at…20 minutes of whargarble.
“None of that changes the fact you are overweight”
“Whargarble whargarble whargarble”
That is just an example of course.
Anyway it just seems so…dismissive to me to just say they have a mental illness. They can be mighty functional when they WANT TO.