I think I need to go away for a while. Anyone ever go to an ashram, zen monastery, etc…? If so, what was your experience? Are they cultish?
This is a pretty open-ended question. The answer SO much depends on what ashram, what retreat, where, etc. For instance, you could try out Kripalu in Western MA, which is a resort-type setting, very lovely (so I’ve heard, not been there myself), offers lots of classes, things to do, etc. More of a spiritual spa, almost.
Then there are Buddhist retreats, weekend type things, including some that offer silence for the whole weekend, classes, meditations, etc. And there are ashrams that will let you come live for some period of time, 40 days for instance, and just try out what it’s like to live in that community.
In general, most places these days that offer the opportunity to come have a time away from “the world” are not overtly prozlytising you, but you might want to know a bit about what their spiritual orientation is before you go, so you know if you’ll be comforable with any religious/spiritual practices you may see or experience there.
What result are you looking for? 