I have to admit, I didn’t quite understand a number of the questions. Of course, that’s pretty much standard for me when it comes to any test or such. I get the strong impression that I tend not to think about things from the same direction as most others. Anyhoo, here are my results from the Myers-Briggs test, this time around. (I have taken it before on a couple of occasions.)
INFJ
Introverted - 67 - distinctively expressed introvert
Intuitive - 56 - moderately expressed intuitive personality
Feeling - 11 - slightly expressed feeling personality
Judging - 22 - slightly expressed judging personality
Hmmm…
I’m definitely not an extrovert. That much is true. Let’s see…
From the INFJ type description by D. Keirsey…
"come easily to decisions" - Sometimes, yes. But I don’t consider many everyday decisions that important. And, if I can, I’ll let someone else make some of those decisions for me. Others often disagree about the importance of such decisions, which can lead to them being annoyed with me. Anyhoo…
"tend not to share their reactions except with those they trust" - For most of my life, yes. Now, however, I have little reservations about sharing my point of view or feelings with anyone. Something which can easily annoy my family - particularly my mother and sister…
"strong empathic abilities" - I wouldn’t say strong. There have been some terrible instances where women have left me totally confused. Conniving bitches!
I’ve come to connect those situations to my previously mentioned unusual thinking. (Though I sometimes feel that I think more like a woman than a man.)
As for the “psychic phenomena” stuff, aside from those weird times when a certain moment (usually always pedestrian and forgettable) seems like it’s already happened (that sense of déjà vu), I’ve never experienced anything in my life which has seemed “supernatural” to me.
(Actually, when I was a kid I would sometimes think I saw an animal out of the corner of my eye, but there would be nothing there when I looked. I thought I saw my late dog Shep one time, which was neat. I candidly called these images “ghost animals”.)
From the INFJ type description by J. Butt and M.M. Heiss…
I like the description by Joe Butt ( :giggle: ) a lot more than D. Keirsey’s.
"INFJs, like many other FJ types, find themselves caught between the desire to express their wealth of feelings and moral conclusions about the actions and attitudes of others, and the awareness of the consequences of unbridled candor." - This is pretty much spot on. Like I said, I have little reservations about speaking my mind to anyone, but I do know when it truly would be inappropriate. (And sometimes abstain if I know it’ll really bother my mother or sister. But I’ll often tease them before assuring them I won’t speak out.
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From Marina Margaret Heiss’ description…
"generally “doers” as well as dreamers. This rare combination of vision and practicality often results in INFJs taking a disproportionate amount of responsibility in the various causes to which so many of them seem to be drawn." - Unfortunately, I have a lot of trouble actually “doing” things. I’ve always been a “dreamer”, but seem to have little initiative these days. It one of the things that most depresses me.
As for taking responsibility, I prefer that people don’t depend on me. (But, if I do commit to something where others are depending on me, I usually always do my best to please.) And I’ve never been a leader. Keirsey’s description is much more accurate for me when he says "…not generally visible leaders, they nevertheless work quite intensely with those close to them, quietly exerting their influence behind the scenes…"
Back to Heiss…
"They are, in fact, sometimes mistaken for extroverts because they appear so outgoing and are so genuinely interested in people – a product of the Feeling function they most readily show to the world. On the contrary, INFJs are true introverts, who can only be emotionally intimate and fulfilled with a chosen few from among their long-term friends, family, or obvious "soul mates."
Wow! That’s right on for me. I can be very talkative and open in smaller groups of people at times. People who have seen me in such a situation, then see me being quiet and introverted another time, often think there’s something wrong with me - that I’m feeling ill, or something. And I do only have about three close friends, and only one in which I truly feel I can talk about anything.
Heiss used the word “enigmatic” in her description of an INFJ profile. That’s a good word for me. Actually, her description is very good when it comes to pointing out the contradictions apparent in my personality, and the problems they can cause for me…
"As a pattern of behavior, it is perhaps the most confusing aspect of the enigmatic INFJ character to outsiders, and hence the most often misunderstood…"
"This empathy can serve as a classic example of the two-edged nature of certain INFJ talents, as it can be strong enough to cause discomfort or pain in negative or stressful situations. More explicit inner conflicts are also not uncommon in INFJs; it is possible to speculate that the causes for some of these may lie in the specific combinations of preferences which define this complex type."
And finally…
"Usually self-expression comes more easily to INFJs on paper, as they tend to have strong writing skills." - Right on! “Writer” is the only area of work which I really see myself being happy and successful. (If it wasn’t for that damn initiative problem.) I rarely if ever use Windows Messenger, and do not like chat rooms. Only newsgroups and the SDMB for me. And I’m very meticulous with my posts. Even the smallest post can take me a long time to finish. And I preview a lot. (At least a dozen times for this post. Which is actual low for a post this length.)
Anyhoo…