Face it. There are billions of people in the world that suffer from poverty and starvation. I’ve expirienced the misery that many poor people go through everyday (I’ve lived 18 years in the Dominican Republic).
Often, when I am driving in my car to go to someplace, I am approached by a mother struggling to feed her son’s or by a poor boy trying to buy a piece of bread. I won’t lie, I will give them money once every 20 approaches.
Not as a way of excusing myself, but more to point out an observation: I am not the only one that does this at all. I assure you that 90% of the time a visibly poor, and suffering person is denied money by more than 90% of the people he/she asks.
My main problem with this is that, most of the time I simply do not care to give my money to the poor. Ocassionaly I will see a person and feel bad for them, but most of the time, I do not feel sad for not helping out a person in need.
The problem with me is that, sometimes, I feel bad for NOT feeling bad about the other person. I am a person who has grown up in a wealthy family and have lacked nothing in terms or nececities, yet I do not help other people nearly as much as I should.
My question to you is, can you relate with my story? I see many people not giving money to people in need and not feeling bad about it. This makes me wonder about peoples overall altruism. I understand that people have ther own lives to live and cannot always worry about others, but still my concern for this issue remains. Are we that negligent to others that we allow people to die and not feel a bit bad about it?