I signed up through my college’s alumni association to be a mentor for a student who had won a scholarship. It was the same type of scholarship I had won when I went there.
My girlfriend thought I would find the experience enriching.
But here’s the problem. The student I’m supposed to mentor (I don’t like the word “mentee”, but I may be forced to use it) and I have never met in person.
There was supposed to be an event for everyone to meet at. She never contacted me before that. That was in January. Since then, I have sent her a few emails to ask her how her classes were going, stuff like that.
But I always would get replies about three or four weeks late. It’s pretty much made it impossible for me to try to schedule anything because I never know when I’m going to hear from the student.
There’s a second problem. The student (who is female) said she would preferred if I just called her on her cell. However, I’m a 40-year old male. She’s likely 18. That just doesn’t seem to work quite well for someone like me to call someone that young out of the blue and just start to chat.
I generally feel that I’m too old to be of much help to this student. The college has changed a lot since I was there. The student isn’t interested in working in my field either.
I’m wondering if I should just go back to Plan B for supporting my school and just writing them a check