Heh. I had a similar experience on a couple of different services; over 600 messages sent, a bare 12 responses (which worked out to two coffee dates and two standups), and nothing approximating an actual date-type-date. I did, however, get a rather impressive number of unsolicited messages from “Russin bueties with big gazooks, cok you grate meel, hot in sak.” I didn’t know whether to laugh or pity.
What a ufcked up world we live in where the only attention I can get is from English-challenged women halfway across the world.
Actually, one of the women, who sent me pictures, was quite lovely and wrote English rather well. None the less, I thanked her for her interest and wished her well.