Noting that I’ve never seen any man wear a bow tie in the office, are bow ties still professional to wear in a modern American business office? Or is it now just for tuxedos and pee-wee herman imitations?
George Will wears them all the time.
It’s slightly unconventional, but perfectly proper.
Before we went to business casual, several of us wore bow ties just to be different. Some wore bolo and string ties as well.
The one person I’ve encountered wearing a bow tie lately was called “Bow Tie Boy” derisively behind his back. That was proably a function of his personality more than his attire.
I have no problem with bow ties. But I think it was really funny when Jon Steward asked a guy, “How old are you?”
The answer: “33.”
Steward: You’re 33 and you’re wearing a bow tie?
It’s not like he was at the Academy Awards.
If you want to imitate George Will you have some serious problems.
The short answer is “Yes, but…”
I have a few bowties and wear them now and then; my wife likes me in them. But many people think they’re faintly ridiculous. You could be Chuck Norris or Jack Bauer in a bowtie and still be giggled at by some. IMHO, you’re more likely to get away with wearing a bowtie if you’re not already thought of as effete, a prig or a wimp.
Around my office, most men don’t wear ties at all. If one wore a bow tie, he might be regarded as old-fashioned or eccentric, but I doubt if it would be a problem.
It is acceptable if you are a college professor or a circus clown.
There’s a weather guy on Philly TV who’s made them a trademark – Glenn “Hurricane” Schwartz. He seems like a tool to me, but I guess that’s what some prefer in their weatherpeople.
My boss, who is very old-school, wears them to court and other occasions when he wears a suit. I don’t think I’ve ever seen him wear a regular necktie. It’s sort of his “signature” attire. And trust me, he’s been practicing law as long as I’ve been alive, he’s one the best in his field, nationally, and so nobody is ever going to say a word about what kind of tie he wears to court.
One of my former bosses wore one. I’m convinced he did it because it was different from the usual run of ties, and made him stand out. He was able to pull it off – he never looked Pee Wee Herman buffoonish. He always had top-notch, properly tied ones (never a clip-on)
My Dr. wore one for a while but I think he no longer wears them.
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I’d argue that you have a bigger problem if you can’t tell the difference b/t a person wearing a tuxedo and a person who is just wearing a bow tie. Seriously, the Academy Awards?
On top of that, where did you get the idea that people who wear bow ties are trying to imitate George Will? I don’t wear one b/c they don’t look good on me, but they are quite common in my part of the world (the Southern US).
I used to work with this one guy who used to wear a bow tie. He looked like a fucking marionette puppet.
I had a professor in college who wore a bow tie. He looked like a clown too. You basically need to be 70 or older to pull off a bow tie. I’m not willing to say nobody under 70, but anyone considering whether they can pull off the look needs to realize it’s astonishingly unlikely they’re the guy who can.
Not really. At any given wedding I go to I’ll see 3 or 4 young guys in bow ties. The vast majority of them pull it off well.
Well, even if they don’t make fun of him, you know some (many?) people are going to refer to him as “the old guy who always wears bow ties.” Sure was the case for Paul Simon.
I consider it sort of telling that you acknowledge that he has some desire/need to adopt a “signature” anything. I’m not saying it is a bad thing. But I often wonder about anyone who chooses to either dress or groom themselves in a unconventional manner that draws attention to themselves. Whether it be your boss’ bowtie, or some teen who always wears black.
A more extreme example - I remember one time I was arbitrating a case, and one of the lawyers was dressed up as - I don’t know - like he stepped out of a barbershop quartet or something. He didn’t stop with the bowtie, but also wore a seersucker suit and straw boater. On one hand, it looked kinda sharp. On the other, it looked like a costume - like he was imitating someone’s idea of a southern gentleman from several decades ago. IMO wouldn’t have been much less appropriate for him to dress up like a cowboy, or a wizard. I have no idea what the case was about - or even whether he was an effective advocate. But I do remember that he dressed (IMO) like a clown.
Technically, she didn’t say anything about him having a desire to adopt a “signature” anything. She only said it is his “signature” style. One can have a signature style without going out of the way to develop it.*
- Like how I’m the “quirky” one in my office, despite my attempts to appear normal. Oh well.
Heh. I made it a point to wear one of my bowties when I met Sen. Simon in 1988. He said he liked it!