And you have to wear one all the time. You have to own the look - it’s not a sometime thing. If you’re not prepared to make it part of your identity, it’s just going to be an affectation.
The only time a bow tie looks bad is if it’s too small. That’s what makes Pee Wee Herman’s tie comic, it’s a kid’s sized tie on a grown man. Also points off if it’s too loud a paisley or floral pattern.
I like men in bow ties. It shows that they’re thinking about what they’re wearing and trying to make a statement.