I was homeless in the US, on and off, from the ages of 19-22. I moved in with my boyfriend this March and have been employed for a few months now. While I was homeless I’ve been all over the map- on dope and not on dope, with and without a car, traveling and staying in one place, working and panhandling. There is a certain subculture that I was a part of, called crusties, train kids, dirty kids, etc. They travel across the country via freight trains and hitchhiking, sometimes looking for seasonal work, sometimes just for someplace warm. A lot of kids claim to have chosen this life, but in most cases, we were kicked out by our parents at some point in our teens. Various factors make it hard for us to settle down and get jobs- mental health issues, substance abuse, lack of education and work experience, criminal records, chronic wanderlust.
There is a huge stigma amongst these particular kids about accepting help. It is generally felt that if you stay in one place too long while not working, you’re a homebum- a derogatory term for a classic homeless person who uses up all the available resources, panhandles very aggressively and ruins everything for everybody. The thinking is that you are failing at life and giving up your freedom by not working or hustling enough. Staying in short term shelters is frowned upon, unless it is really cold and there’s no other option. Also, shelters are seen as dangerous places where you have to deal with “wingnuts”(mentally ill people) and thieves stealing your stuff. The only shelter that I’ve stayed at and actually enjoyed is this one in Chicago: Corporate Involvement They had good food, were not too strict, and the other homeless kids there were generally trustworthy. They did not open til 8 pm, unlike some shelters which require you to be there at 4:30 and sit through some church service. They were at least at capacity every night and sometimes had to turn a dozen people away. They also do not segregate by sex there, which brings up another point why young homeless people don’t like to stay in shelters: many kids on the street are homosexual or transgender, and feel very uncomfortable in traditional shelters.
Long term housing is simply not available in most cases for young, nondisabled homeless people without children. Even if you qualify for a section 8 housing voucher, there are long waiting lists in a lot of places. A friend of mine and her two year old son are dealing with that process right now. Her mother has given her a few months to get out of the house, and unless her friends are willing to be very generous, there’s really not a lot of places she can go.
A couple people at my job now are homeless, even while working full time. They spend their money on booze and drugs and food and sleep in abandoned houses, while attempting to save up for a normal apartment. In Chicago, when it was too cold to sleep outside or in some abandoned building and the shelter was full, we used to ride the train all night. I woke up once with a guy with one hand in my pocket and his other on my breast. It was scary.