So, I’m a pretty regular viewer of the TV show Parenthood. I sometimes find it’s a bit too emotionally manipulative, but, hey, what hour-long television drama these days isn’t? So I watch it.
Anyway, there is this character named Max, a high school freshman-aged boy with Asperger’s Syndrome. Years ago, when the boy was younger, I found his portrayal to be very believable and convincing. In fact, I recall seeing news stories and video segments about how true-to-reality the actor’s portrayal was, and families with Asperger’s children were grateful to see their world finally getting some public exposure. (It should be mentioned that the actor does not have the syndrome in real life.)
Lately, however, I am less won-over by Max. I know that a key trait of Asperger’s Syndrome is that sufferer’s are very non-empathetic, but teen-aged Max is utterly self-absorbed, and *intellectually clueless *about the other people in the world around him. He is, to coin a phrase, a total Asperger’s robot. Nothing else seems to have any control over him.
I mean, I would think that a boy of his age would begin to have the intellectual ability to figure out some social and familial interactions, even if he is emotionally numb to them. But every single unwelcome request or demand made of him is met with a “Why?” And even when he is told why, he resists. Everything is “unfair” to him – even though a child with minimum intellect should be able to grasp the “fairness” of what is asked of him, especially after it has been explained.
And I’m not just talking about petty kid stuff, like demands to clean up his room. In big crises, like in last night’s episode when his mother has collapsed onto the bathroom floor, he registers zero sense of urgency. Even if he can not feel for his parents’ distress, I would think his intellectual brain should tell him that there is a problem here.
So, I guess the question is this: Is the portrayal of Max reasonably accurate for a male Asperger’s sufferer of his age, or is it over the top, or flawed in some other way?
Thanks all, in advance.