In theory, we can project some future date where brain function is so well understood that the nature of identity can be mapped and analyzed. With that level of understanding of things like self identity and what makes us think this way and that, it might be reasonable to start asking the question of how does gender dismorphity arise. It might be possible to assess a person early, figure out where a hormonal path goes left when it should go right, or where a gene missed a cue and didn’t fire, or whatever. When we have that detailed level of understanding, we can reevaluate what it means to be trans, and what the best solution to the problem is.
Right now, we do not have the kind of information to assess the problem to that degree. We have a condition - people’s self-identity does not match their gonads. We have clinical history of trying to approach it via therapy and retraining to alter the self-identity. That is very low success, poor outcomes, and generally unhappy patients. We have an alternate approach - use hormones and perhaps surgery to alter the body to our best ability to match the self-identity. The statistical results are far better for this course of action.
How is it really a burden on society for us to recognize people have a problem, recognize a solution that gives the best outcomes with the information and techniques we currently have, and allow people to choose their outcome?
Most rejection of the concept comes from ignorance and fear.
Fear that the person might “pass”, that somehow you’ll wake up one day and be in bed with a penis you didn’t see coming. The Crying Game effect.
Fear that somehow someone going against “biology” will cause the downfall of society.
Simple pigheaded ignorance that another person’s genitals are more important to me than what is in their head.
I can say that I sympathize with stevenova. I’ve been there, I’ve had those thoughts. What I’ve come to realize is that my personal comfort is really not relevant to that person’s life.
Seriously, we’re able to get over race and color, we’re able to get over dwarfism, we’re able to get over homosexuality. Get over transgender, too.