I’m not sure I understand why anyone cares about another’s sexual preference, unless they’re lookin’ for lovin’… And since I’m neither lookin’ nor looked for, I don’t think anyone really cares.
As for income, since I’ve been a gov’t employee for eons, my pay is a matter of public record - GS-12 step 10. I was a GS-13 step 4, but I took a demotion to move here. In any event, my rate of pay is meaningless if you don’t know my debt load (which is nobody’s business but mine) - assuming someone wants to figure out how much cash I have in my pocket (at this moment, $13.96)