Oh purplebear, why do bad things happen to such good people?
I hope that things work out with you and Mr Bear.
(((((((fierce warm hugs for purplebear and Mr Bear)))))))
I’m crying now…I kills me when people like you aren’t happy…
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Done, and done…!
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Purp, your words say it all…
::wagging finger::
I told you so…
::gets hit with rotten tomato::
Wishing you both wellness and happiness, purplebear and Mr Bear.
Hands Zen a warm, wet washcloth and a big fluffy towel. Yes, you did indeed. That’s why I like it here, so many really sharp people. <sticks tongue out at him when he’s not looking>
Audrey! Hi, sweetie. Thank you. Much appreciated. We will be happy again, I feel.
Thanks, Garfield226, for your kind words and offer on AIM just now.
{{{{{{Hugs for everyone}}}}}}
I saw this thread this morning and didn’t post to it because I didn’t know what to say… It warms my heart to see that things are looking up.
Hang in there. My thoughts are with you and yours.
ditto to everything woodstock said. {{{purplebear}}}
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No advice–my record indicates I’m pretty abysmal at relationships–but my best wishes to you and Mr. Bear. Separation magnifies everything; soon you will hopefully have the happiness you deserve.
(Can I throw a tomato at Zenster too? Just for something to do.)
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I don’t promise words of wisdom but, having been through almost every kind of marital problem there is, I offer you a shoulder, a ear and heart.
God damn me to hell
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Purplebear, I don’t think that I can tell you how much you’ve inspired me on this board. You always have a kind word for anyone who needs one, and always bring a smile to my face. Best wishes to both of you, and, if it’ll help, I’ll dance around and make a fool of myself for both of you. See? The bells on my shoes jingle! It’s funny! Really!
<gets smacked with tomoato>
Hey! That’s not very…oh, wait. You were aiming for Zenster. Okay, then. That’s alright.
And Mr. Bear, don’t use language like that, it’s MPSIMS. Besides, we love you too.
If you wanna talk, I’m only an email away. Mojo530@aol.com
More hugs for both of you, and I hope everything works out!
Purplebear asked me to tell y’all that she really apreciates your support, but she is having computer problems now, and may not be able to reply here for a while, so don’t worry if she dosen’t post for a few days.
{{{{{{{{{{{Purple Bear}}}}}}}}}}} you always have such wonderful advice on the board, it seems such a shame that now, when you need it I am unable to think of any.
Wishing you hugs and happiness.
With your kind and caring nature I know you will be doing all the things that are best for you all.
Take care.
Hey PB, I dont think any words are necessary for me to say but here is a hug for you {{{{KARYN}}}} I am always there for you, you know that. Hang in there and keep the faith.
PB… MY special friend. Remember the days you held me? Remember the pain I could not carry alone? I’m always thinking of you. You put life back into me when I couldn’t breathe. You and VB never left my side. My ragpickers… You are always in my heart. Hold on tight to the love you and MB have. You both hold on tight to each other. It’s cold out here alone. I wish I could give you a hug. You are always in my heart. The gift of your friendship was truly one of the greatest things I received this year. Merry Christmas to you all…
Good luck to both of you. I take it Mr. Bear doesn’t appreciate his personal business being put on the board. I hope that you can both work this out, the less people involved the better. It’s not about what other people think or feel, it’s what the two of you feel. You seem to have a strong bond and a deep mutual love. Let that guide you through these times. Your friends stand behind you and care for you, but remember that what goes on at home needs to stay at home. It always works best that way. Sending good thoughts your way to both of you.
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I hope everything works out for you and Mr Bear, my prayers go out to you both.
{{{{Purplebear}}}}
We’ll give you plenty of hugs when you’re here in Dallas. In the meantime, you have my cellphone number and my email is glfreak@aol.com.
purplebear, you might very well be the kindest person on these boards. And probably the least deserving of any emotional discomfort.
My thoughts are with you, of course.
I am so sorry that I haven’t been here to ‘talk’ to all of you sweet, dear, kind people. I was chilling and re-grouping some. I am weathering the storm that has blown through our lives, as is Mr Bear. It is said that what doesn’t kill you will make you stronger. Well, I will be an oak when this is all said and done, and I think Mr Bear already is one. Your kindness, thoughts, prayers and good wishes, and most certainly all the hugs, are helping and are so very much appreciated by us both.
Rasa, AndYrAStar, thank you very much.
MysterEcks! Why, why, thank you. A hug from you is special indeed, my friend. And, yes, of course you may throw some tomatoes at Zen too. I’ll just give him more towels to clean off with. Or, maybe some nubile young vixen will offer to lick it all off. 
Ayesha, thank you, dear, for all you’ve already done. I mean that. That site is helping us both.
Mr Bear, my very love, we will get through this.
<Handing Jester a towel> Thank you, Jester, so much. And, see? I’m smiling at your silly shoes. And, BLUSH Thank you for that; I’m glad if I can help someone feel better.
Thanks, Dave, for all your help and offers of help. You’re a dear when you have so much going on with you already.
Wyldelf, thank you, I’m trying to do just that. Time will tell how successful I’ve been.
Thanks, maidenunicorn, and I’ll see you on Thurs. I’d never make it without friends like you.
Thank you so much, GBS, my dear friend. I’m so glad that we were able to help you through your struggles. Your kind words mean much to me. I am clinging as tightly as I can to the love we share, and to each other. I can’t wait to hug him in person. Your friendship means a lot to me, and I am here for you always.
Thank you, ultress, and your emails were appreciated too. I hope MrBear’s email cleared that up for you.
Pipe, my buddy! Thank you so much. I’m glad to hear you’re doing well up there, even in the freezing weather.
Grace, I’m looking forward to all of those hugs. Hope y’all will have plenty of kleenexes too, since all those hugs will probably make me cry. You’re a sweet person.
DRY, my dear. Thank you for your wonderful words. Blush Even though I don’t quite believe that I am. I have a long way to go in that area, I’m afraid.
Thank you all so very much. Your kindness and generosity are helping me, and MrBear, through this time. You have helped lighten the load considerably.
{{{{{{{{{{All of you wonderful Dopers}}}}}}}}}}
My pleasure, purplebear.
In that case… <MysterEcks hits himselfwith tomatoes>