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When I was in, you could receive up to ten 50-word “familygrams” per deployment (usually 6 months long). They were like telegrams, and were censored to prevent a sailor from getting upset in the event of bad news. (i.e. No submariner would get a “Dear John” familygram.)
Death announcements and the like were handled on a case-by-case basis. Often the family member would have to explain the situation to the squadron before the message would even be sent. If the sailor could be transferred off, they often would be.
Not sure how e-mail, etc. works on subs these days, as there was none of that when I was in. I suspect that all of that is limited to when a sub is on training exercises. On deployments, all outgoing transmissions were severely limited and had to be approved by the CO.
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LOL
You should have been there [actually you may have been …] when I had to move heaven and earth to get SubRon2 to bother letting mrAru know that he had to get checked for what the rest of the crew was calling sheep HIV Caseous Lymphadenitis is transferrable to humans and pretty nasty. Luckily we didn’t have to cull him out of the herd as he was negative for it, but it took me crawling my way up the chain of command and finally getting the base hospital in on it as well.
I know they aren’t supposed to give them bad news but fer jebus sake a serious medical issue is pretty damned important. But then again, they made him go to sea with a brand new case of pneumonia, and another time with the no shit full on influenza. And I understand he was pretty amusing going up and down ladders with a broken foot back on the Spadefish out of Norfolk.