Let me explain things a bity further. It probably won’t change anyone’s opinion of what I did, but I can see how what I said could easily be misinterpreted.
This was a fairly close friend who I did care about, but who was deceiving herself about some stupid choices she made in her life, when she came crying to me about it I would just say nice things to make her feel better, no it’s not your fault, etc. One night we were coming back from a party and we got on one of those discussions that tends to escalate into an argument, and I got so disgusted with her deceptiveness, both to herself and me, and her naivete that I told her exactly what I thought about a number of things that I had kept quiet about because I always felt like I had to be nice 100% of the time to girls. This did upset her, and maybe I could have gone about it in a different way, but things changed, mostly for the better. I didn’t really say anything to her that I wouldn’t have said to a close friend or sibling in the same situation, but it was a change for me to be that honest with women I was attracted to, and the new behavior was reinforced by women’s reaction to it. Sometimes being honest and confident IS being an asshole, and I don’t really see anything wrong with it.
Badtz Maru, why is it that everywhere I go on this board lately, you are saying something that YOU KNOW is going to get you into a fight? It’s going to take the jaws of life to get your foot out of that mouth.
Batten down the hatches, my boy. ::tosses Badtz a HazMat suit::
Actually, that example is the only recent occasion I can think of where I said something that was deliberately provocative. It was a joke (see the smiley?). I like women a lot, actually, some of my best friends are women (snicker). I actually do try to see other people as less important than me, though, women and men alike. For a long time I was too concerned about other people over myself. Today there are only a few people I care about more than myself.
WHat if its too big?
Go ask pamela Lee I guess.
It happened to me once. I was 32 and it was the fourth time I’d ever had sex.
It was not fun, it was painful.
Why is Diane asking that?
Darn, I feel stupid now. I was thinking of SPOOFE’s post, nevermind, yours is a serious question.
Byz, you’d better answer his question, because I want to know what that spot is, too. For what reason? Um, it is for a…ummmmm…research project I am conducting. Yeeesssss…that’s it!
I have heard the term “full blown rose” used to describe unusually large labia minora, lathough it is more often used when the lips are actually spread.
