Well…I figured I may as well chip in with A Pirori Tea and freakalette on answering about the various sundry worlds of…the world.
I don’t practice and have no intention to ever practice any fetishes in real life. I am mostly active in World of Warcraft, but I’ve also used IMVU and Second Life.
In WoW I am the unofficial top-domme of a group, though this doesn’t mean terribly much as as doms we mostly ignore each other and our relative pets. Generally it means that I’m the one who calls gatherings and watches the membership roster/club morale the closest. I personally have three very faithfull pets, one free-floating sub, another lady who isn’t terrribly into D/s but is more submissive than myself and attracted to me, and girlfriend with whom my relations are largely vanilla.
I’m open to all the extreme fetishes that aren’t feasible in real life and many of the fantasy-only ones like tentacle sex so long as it is presented realistically and the person I am with isn’t an idiot/there’s a plausible explanation for it (which explains why tentacle sex has only happened once and was quite limited in scope.)
Gleena. Yup, WoW. Obviously, it’s on a roleplay server. The easiest way to see if there’s anything going on on your server is to check out the “Darknest Fantasy Erotica” forums.
And I’m not quite sure what you’re asking with the tentacles, freekalette. You mean suggestions for RPing it, or recommendations of manga or something? The one time I did it, it was consensual with a magician who specialised in shapechanging helping us out. The tentacles were just short little tendrils (foot or two in length, millimeter round or so) so they were more there to be mildly invasive and teasing than Zomg Tentacle Monster! Rape! Rape! Think of them as Medusa’s bush.
I wouldn’t say there’s any carry-over to my real life. And I wouldn’t say that I have any fetishes (as in plural), a sadistic joy in playing with people’s minds and leading them into things they are just on the edge of comfortable with perhaps, but I personally couldn’t care less whether that’s foot kissing or branding. To me its more just internet porn that happens to be sociable, creative, and entertaining and leads to (non-erotic) roleplay situations in the game.
My girlfriend is cyber (roleplayed.) I met her by offering an invitation to the club since she knew several people that were in the scene. It happened that she wasn’t into it herself, but also seemed like a nice person. But, her having a general idea of things right off the bat probably has helped our relationship. She views it as my “nose picking” hobby; something not terribly wholesome or sightly, but not worth dumping me over. And I’ve made it very clear that in all likelihood I’d stop practicing if it looked like it would get in the way of us. As you see, my character’s other life has inspired further stories that she has to wade through.
My wife was reading over my shoulder and started to rattle off half a dozen titles for you. Then she looked again and said, “Scratch that. I didn’t see consensual. I got nothing, and frankly I don’t see the point. Where’s the fun in consensual tentacle porn?”
I’ve never seen animated tentacle porn (unless you consider Blue Seed, which is pg-13), nor read any manga, so I have no idea.
Of course, the doujin way of thinking is “If if doesn’t exist and you be wanting it, draw up some comics, no matter how bad, and bring it to the next con!”
Entirely unrelated to the OP topic, but by many wierd twists of fate, I was once asked to watch over a doujin’s booth at a doujinshi con in Tokyo for five-ten minutes. Looked through the guys comic–really bad art about women being tortured and flogged, and very bloody. I was able to buy a picture of Pikachu with an axe through the head that was very good though. The guy who did it was just drawing on a lark. Most of his stuff was very muscular, macho women with guns and stuff. The picture has since been lost in the mists of time.