Last night I attended the Christmas party of a firm for which I regularly do agency work. Their managing partner gave a brief summary of the previous year, and where the firm planned to go in the coming year. His exact words: “Let’s have some fun next year!”
I can assure you that his idea of fun is not to work brutal hours to the exclusion of all else. Nor is mine. Nor is that of most lawyers with whom I interact.
Many of the larger firms work their students and juniors until they drop. If you are not into that sort of treatment, then do not apply for a job at that sort of a firm. If you work in a smaller firm, particularly one outside of the big cities, you most likely will not face that sort of problem.
When you look around your law school and see students “working themselves into a frenzy”, remember that they are very much into being part of and perpetuating a macho culture in which each one tries for bragging rights about how many brutal hours one can put it. Once out of law school, they will continue to be that way, so yes, there certainly are firms where that sort of stupidity is the norm. Learn to spot it, and take another path.
Is it necessary to adopt that lifestyle to be a successful lawyer? No, it is not. Running one’s self at the verge of breakdown does not help one be a good lawyer; nor does losing one’s ground in one’s family and community, nor losing one’s personal development. You will need to produce high quality work. Screwing up your life so as to have higher billable hours will not help you produce high quality work.
Here’s an excerpt from one of the continuing professional development courses offered through the law society and our insurance provider:
Our insurance provider is concerned about lawyers screwing up on files because their life is out of balance, so if we take courses such as this, we get a discount on our insurance fees. It sounds to me that you have already learned something that is extremely important that many of your classmates have not yet learned: how to keep your life in balance.
It is very important that you pick your own path that works for you, rather than jump on whatever bandwagon happens to be passing by at the time. One of the nice things about law is that you can pick your own career path, so be sure that you in fact do pick your own career path, rather than just happen to fall into one that may not necessarily be any good for you. Don’t let other people pressure you into something that is not right for you. It is up to you to set your own goals, and when dealing with job pressures, to set your own boundaries, so as to keep all the various dimensions of optimal wellness in balance.
Bottom line? Be your own person, and have a blast!