ISTM that this would open up a whole can of worms. Dopers routinely post links to disgusting hate-speech-type material in the context of ranting about how awful it is, for example. That doesn’t get modded, even if it doesn’t include any specific warning about hate speech content.
I don’t know how we would conclusively tell the difference between an OP linking to a controversial article in order to deliberately sneak its hateful terminology into the discourse, which I agree should not be tolerated, and an OP linking to a controversial article because they agree with its general argument although they reject its hateful terminology.
AFAICT, these issues are usually dealt with by posters pointing out that the OP’s link poisons the well, and if they sincerely want to debate a controversial point they should find a defense of it that doesn’t bring in hateful terminology. Asking people to overlook vile insults is not a reasonable expectation in debate.
Context is important. Lambasting something vile is a world apart from linking it to get around rules. I do think warnings and/or two-clicks for hate speech in those circumstances is a reasonable best practice.
I don’t think that needs to be a line. If you can’t find an argument supporting your position that doesn’t include hateful terminology, you probably need to go ahead and abandon your position.
It’s true, I think this case is quite clear-cut but but other cases could be tricky. I think “Can you believe how stupid this crap is?” is probably a sufficient warning in almost all contexts.
And although this link was blatant, there might be other cases where the offensive speech is subtler. We can’t have a standard where people are expected to carefully read every word of every link they post, although I do think the standard should be significantly higher in the case of links in an OP.
There are men who identify as men but who wear clothing traditionally associated with women–dresses, skirts, corsets, etc. When a person identifies as a man but chooses to wear clothing associated with women, in general that’s cross-dressing. (There are women-dressing-as-men as well, but in our society that’s rarer, given clothing mores).
There are also people who identify as men who deliberately pretend to be women, and vice versa. If I, who identify as male, adopt the stage persona of Lucy Goosy Queen of Fowl Play, and I wear a giant feathered boa and a sequined gown and a lot of makeup, you might describe me as a female impersonator. If I just shave my beard and fake a driver’s license that says Elizabeth and wear a pantsuit in order to pull off a daring casino heist, you might describe me the same way.
There are transgender people, who were assigned one gender at birth but do not identify as that gender. I REPEAT: THEY DO NOT IDENTIFY AS THAT GENDER. The gender they identify as comports with the gender they intend people to see them as. When they dress in clothing that other folks with the same gender dress in, they’re not cross-dressing. When they present as the gender they are, they’re not impersonating.
The only way a transgender person may be described as a “female impersonator” would be if, for example, a man assigned female at birth puts on a skirt and lipstick. But I’d strongly recommend against using that description, because some grossly transphobic people have kind of commandeered the use of “impersonator” to describe transgender people, and at this point you’re just better off finding a different term.
In my original mis-gendering transgression I referred to a character in a TV reality play who referred to his husband as being pregnant. I referred to that as a female impersonating a male. No slur was intended. It was simply sentential English.
In order to debate reality we need access to language.
You have access to language, but you’re using it very poorly. You were almost incorrect when you said that anyone was impersonating a male. If the spouse of the character identifies as male and presents as male, he’s male. His pregnancy has nothing to do with that. Are you genuinely confused on this straightforward point?
When you say “no slur was intended,” I don’t believe you.