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A recent example is that I met one of my SO’s co-workers/friends tonight. We went to dinner and during conversation the friend asked me if I was Cancer, but then assumed that I was on the cusp of Leo because she picked up some of the Leo/fire traits. I am not on the cusp - I am in the middle of Cancer. HOWEVER, my rising sign is LEO. I did not tell her this, I just met her. SO may or may not have mentioned my birthday (well, the month, he’s not so great on dates and he isnt interested in astrology so I am sure I am safe to say he doesnt know a rising sign from a cusp or a cancer from a virgo). She also picked up my ability to balance things out (libra - which is my Moon). She pulled all three of the major influences of my chart without knowing my personal information.
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Let’s see, step by step:
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First, two friends (even new ones) interested in astrology on the dinner. Chances they don’t know each other approx birth date are small. As you said SO may or may not have mentioned my birthday. Month is more than enough to try with Cancer/Leo.
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*the friend asked me if I was Cancer, but then assumed that I was on the cusp of Leo because she picked up some of the Leo/fire traits. * - cold reading, most possibly unintentional. Your subconscious reactions gave tips whether it’s Cancer or Leo, or something with Leo.
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I am not on the cusp - I am in the middle of Cancer. HOWEVER, my rising sign is LEO. - so, she was wrong, but YOU found way to incorporate that info into your belief system. Confirmation bias, plain and strong.
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She also picked up my ability to balance things out (libra - which is my Moon). - Barnum statement. I bet that at least 80% of population would agree if you told them that they have ability to balance things out. Then confirmation bias made YOU to pin this statement to YOUR knowledge about yourself.
Nothing that can’t be explained by well known psychological phenomena. Actually, I could pull a stunt like that easily using just knowledge from my psychological education.