Inspired by this thread.
I will notify the mods to ensure this does not violate board restrictions against discussing suicide. To avoid that, I’ll ask that people discuss their opinions when they reach an older age - let’s say older than 60, and they experience significant mental and/or physical decline. So I am NOT asking for people’s views on ostensibly healthy younger people just wishing to commit suicide.
I have often expressed my desire to not exist after I get to a point that I no longer consider myself to be myself. And I mean that both mentally and/or physically. If I cannot maintain myself in a tiny studio apartment, where I can read (and remember) books, bathe and dress myself, and engage in meaningful conversations with others, I do not think I would wish to exist. Possibly with the assistance of a nurse/caregiver who visited for a couple of hours daily.
I CERTAINLY would not wish to be kept alive as the zombies I have encountered in assisted living memory care units. The most challenging situation would be if I were mentally intact, but needed great physical assistance. But mentally, at the very least if I cannot recognize my wife/children/grandchildren, and cannot be mentally responsible for my own safety within a small apartment, I do not wish to continue.
I know other people who wish ANY efforts be made to keep them alive ANY length of time, so long as they have a single eyelash fluttering.
If the mods allow, I’d be happy to discuss any aspects of this, tho we ought to avoid discussing specific methods.
A couple of significant issues I perceive are:
-who ought to pay for/provide what level of care?
-what factors have to be considered in accommodating preferences no matter the individual’s wealth?
I don’t desire to persuade anyone that their choice is right or wrong. I just hoped this could be a meaningful discussion.