When I read the lawyer threads in the BBQ Pit last night I vowed that I was going to stay out of this debate. However, after reading what’s been said in several of these threads I find that I can’t. I’m not going to address anyone’s posts specifically, but I would like to share some of my thoughts.
DISCLAIMER: The word “you” is used in a general sense and is not directed at any poster in particular.
I am a third-year law student who will graduate next July, and quite frankly, it’s not something that I’m anticipating. I’m not stupid – I know how some people feel about lawyers, and there have been many days when I’ve actually broken down crying because of the horrible thoughts I’ve had about myself for entering this field. I regret that I’ve allowed someone else’s negative opinions to affect my self image to this degree.
Contrary to what some people may believe, I did not go to law school so I could get rich by suing people. At this point I’ll be happy as long as I can earn enough to pay off my student loans (I’m paying for school myself, just as I did in undergrad). Though I did want to try and help people who needed help, my real motivation for going back to school was that I was bored at my job and I felt I needed a challenge.
Unfortunately it seems that the real challenge is convincing some people that I’m not a money-grabbing, scum-sucking leech who’s out to inflict pain on as many people as possible.
Anyone who knows me in real life will tell you that I am one of the most non-confrontational people you will ever meet; people who knew me from undergrad were shocked to find out that I went to law school at all. However, when some people find out that I’m in law school, it seems as though their opinion of me changes completely. Some of them smirk and say things like “oh, you’re gonna go sue big companies and make millions, huh?” Others glare at me like I just told them that I eat kittens on a regular basis. Then there’s the ever-popular, “oh, but I’m sure you’ll be one of the few honest lawyers.” It upsets me that people feel they can make snap judgments about my character just because I happen to be studying law.
Just for the record, most of my classmates probably will not end up with six-figure salaries or get new cars every year. It’s true that I have friends who earned large sums of money for their summer internships in fields like taxation, but it’s also true that I know people who were paid significantly less for government work.
Not everyone who goes to law school is there to get rich. Hell, not everyone in law school is there to be a lawyer. I happen to be one of those people. I don’t plan to practice law because, as I already stated in another thread, I’m already having serious health problems because of the stress. Luckily there are many alternative careers for someone with a law degree, and they are becoming increasingly popular with students.
Even though the distinction has been made between various types of lawyers, I find this distinction to be just as insulting. I resent the implication that I (and a few others on the board) may be the exception in a profession of crooked people.
In my 25 years of life, I have met good people and bad people. I have met good doctors and bad doctors, good cops and bad cops, good teachers and bad teachers … I could list every occupation here, but this thread would go on forever. My point is that I would never judge an entire profession, or a subsection of a profession, for that matter, based on my experiences with one member of that group. For example, when I was suffering from severe fatigue, a general practitioner told me that my symptoms were all in my head and that I was just a hypochondriac. Another doctor later diagnosed me with hypoglycemia and determined that to be the cause of the fatigue. Does that mean that most doctors are good, but all GPs are idiots? Absolutely not – it just means that the one doctor that I saw was incompetent.
It sickens me that people think such a classification is acceptable for lawyers, and I resent being told that I’m just oversensitive or that I can’t take a joke or that I’m slime by default so I deserve whatever I get.
I always get to know someone before I form any opinions about that person’s character. All I’m asking is that you extend me the same courtesy.