I have this problem with my downstairs neighbors. They play their music so loud that it occasionally rattles my glass/metal end tables. At apx 3 in the afternoon. Given that we’re both 3rd shifters, we’ve repetedly gone downstairs and said, “Yo, this is our nighttime. Could you please keep it down?” “Sure sure, sorry.”
Did this every day for 2 weeks.
Gave up.
Next step, jumping up and down above their chandalier until they got the message.
Two weeks.
Gave up.
Now, I just send it right back to them, at MY 3 in the afternoon (usually around 3 am).
Luckily, we don’t have any next door neighbors, at all (complex has been thinning out), so the only folks I annoy are the ones below me.
If they wake me up at 3pm, I wait until 3am, and turn my TV or radio up niiice and loud as I go about my daily activities. Dishes (including sink grinder), showeing (we have loud pipes), laundry (they live next to the laundry room), and I’ve actually vacuumed around 4am before.
Oddly enough, this has made them quiet down.
If they don’t disturb me during the day, I’m quiet as I go about my business.
Fridays and Saturdays, tho, they can have their music as loud as they want, and I won’t complain. Sun-Thurs, tho . . .