I don’t find it very strange that someone could want a romantic relationship with the sibling of their late spouse, but the fact that it apparently commenced while the sibling is still married to someone else seems very unfortunate. Seems like it would be easier for the kids (and other family/friends) if there had been a very clear delineation there. I can understand why the Bidens want to put a good face on it, but the precipitous timing just seems not in the best interest of anyone involved, in my opinion. I guess time will tell, as it always does.
How does that reasoning make any sense at all? As long as the brother has kids with anybody at all, or a paternal fist cousin (etc.) does, the name would not be lost.
Maybe a little weird but not really wrong, what may have started as comfort and support for a shared, mutual grief probably just blossomed into a romance, stranger things have happened.
As I understand biblical Jewish naming traditions, the difference is Barney ben Beau versus Barney ben Hunter (ben = “son of”) - so the name would be lost if there is no male offspring.
I think there were also legal issues pertaining to inheritance, as the the child will inherit all of the dead brother’s property. That’s important, particularly when women couldn’t inherit, as the mother will then have control of the assets until the child reaches the age of majority (and later have an adult son to support her).
If all the people involved (brother, brother’s wife, widower) were on board with it, and it wasn’t being done behind anyone’s back, no harm and no foul. Bless their happiness. Ain’t anyone else’s business.
Interesting. From the linked article… “Beau, the former attorney general of Delaware, and Hallie have two children, named Natalie and, confusingly, Hunter.”
So would he have then become Hunter ben Hunter?
Understandably, Beau and Hallie already had a great deal of affection for “Hunter” in all its forms.