Whether it’s advice, or just a wise saying, what is the best bit of wisdom that comes from a song?
When my sister, who desperately was hoping to have a girl found out she was pregnant with twin boys, I quoted to her from the wise sage Mick Jager, “You can’t always get what you want, but… you get what you need!”
(The boys are 10 now, and she’s so happy she has them and not the girl she thought she wanted)
Honestly it resonated with me when I was discouraged. Even though the “There is no reason for not failing” line doesn’t quite make the sense that they intend it to, the intended meaning comes through: you might not win, but there is no reason that you can’t at least not fail. And it really did sometimes help get me to get back up off the canvas metaphorically in my younger days.
“Until you learn to laugh you’ll never come to any parties at my house
And if you go on like this the only house you’ll ever visit is the nut house
You’re such a misery, why don’t you learn to laugh?
Look in the mirror and don’t take yourself so seriously”
Ha! A favorite line from one of my favorite songs. I’ve left a trail of scribbled lyrics from Steve Miller in notebooks and on scratch paper for most of my life. (Might be just a bit of rhyming nonsense from a recording artist; might be ancient wisdom stolen from some obscure philosopher. Either way, makes some weird sense, don’t it?