Just thought of another:
Throwing It All Away, Genesis
“Late at night when you call my name
The only sound you’ll hear
Is the sound of your voice calling
Calling out to me”
I assume they’re in the early stages after breaking up, when he’s still smarting pretty badly and trying to pretend he isn’t. 
Morning Sky - Dan Fogelberg.
Yeah. Agreed. Loved that song, and some of its more creative covers.
Mayer Hawthorne’s I Can’t Go For That might apply. (Tho more “don’t” fall in love than “falling” out of love, it is passively hostile. :))
Other than that, whatever George Clooney sings in the car.
So Cruel– U2
Please Me Like You Want To– Ben Harper
“Don’t Speak” by No Doubt
“Sick of You” by Iggy Pop
“My Girlfriend’s Dead” by The Vandals
The song that immediately came to mind:
Jo Dee Messina - My Give A Damn’s Busted
ETA: She had another good one:
If you could read my mind = Gordon Lightfoot
[“I Want You to Die,” Storm Large.