PS2. 
Otherwise, it’s a wash, and depends heavily on whether you read Japanese - because, let’s face it, Tales of Vesperia PS3 doesn’t do you any good if you don’t. Currently, I would give the edge, barely, to the 360, for Lost Odyssey (still exclusive) and ToV (Still exclusive in English). PS3 has White Knight Chronicles, which is apparently not much of a game, and Valkyria Chronicles, which, while it may be a tremendously awesome game, doesn’t REALLY count in my book when you are lining up the JRPG titles. OTOH, the PS3 has the version of Star Ocean 4 without the hideous english voice acting. The value of that varies depending on your interest in Star Ocean 4. Both consoles have FF13, which is an indifferent game, and the technical differences between the two versions are basically negligible, whatever the raving PS3 fanpeople may say.
It’s a pretty grim generation for JRPGs on non-portable consoles. Tales of Vesperia is still probably the best one, and it’s a B+ calibur game at best. (Well, okay, if you count Valkyria Chronicles, it’s probably the best one, and it, depressingly, sold quite poorly.)
All that said, if I were a betting man, I’d put my money on the PS3 for JRPGs at this point, because there are a ton more PS3s in Japan than there are 360s, and JRPGs are made for the “home market” first, with any worldwide release frequently an afterthought.
Edit: Oh, and if you DO speak Japanese and/or are into importing games, the PS3’s mysteriously seldom mentioned REGION FREE status (for purposes of games, anyway) makes it a far better bet.