TIL this word on PBS Newshour…(well, ok, maybe two nights ago)
Hello, my name is none’o yer fricken business!
And I’m a…
I’m a…
I’m…
oh goddamnit I’m a 
book-sniffer!!!
Everyone in the family, back in the day, around the Christmas tree, we’d be, like:
“Ok, c’mon, c’mon, let’s go, pass it over (big, euphoric inhalation)…aaaaaaaahhhhhh yes!!! Actually that one wasn’t too bad, almost a nine.”
So, ok then - because we’re all friends here, hopefully we can convene and commiserate in an empathetic, sober, mutually healthy environment, free of shame, mockery nor retribution.
Openness is the first step.
Any other brave souls willing to come forward?