I like to put my hair in a pony tail gathered at the nape of my neck in a looser elastic scrunchee usually, if I don’t wear it down.
I’ll “flashback” to the 90’s at times when I want my hair off my face, but also want it loose. I take the part that is in my face, pull it back into a pony tail or braid, leave the rest in a loose fall down my back, and accessorize according to outfit. Sometimes I use a pretty barrette, sometimes a silk or satin bow or a ribbon/scarf. I have a several matte black dragonfly bobbypins accented with rhinestones I use if I’m being fancy. It looks nice, is out of my face etc.
Other times I’ll use an “ouchless” rubberband to fasten my hair, then braid it. (So with luck it will stay in the braid for a while at least without needing to be redone.) Every 3rd or 4th “knot” (about 4 to 6 inches) I’ll put in a colorful rubberband or whimisical (I have some colorful 70’s kid plastic balls I like to use, sort of like a businessman with a Mickey Mouse watch.) accessory, leaving about a 4 to 6 inch bit unbraided. This is only if I’m feeling playful, maybe for a day at the park.
Whatever you do, accessories of the lack of them can make or break a hairdo. Sometimes there are too many, and that’s just as bad as none. Play with it, find some ornaments that please you, and use them.
I don’t have many really nice ornaments, but I keep my eyes open if I am in the mall, I got my dragonfly rhinestone bobbypins on clearance that way.
Here are some links to places that have nice hair ornaments. I’d love the white bronze dragons barrette from here.
I just found this site, definitely bookmarking it. I’d love to have some of the barrette and ponytail holders from there. sigh
Also just found this one. Some of those aren’t too flashy, and could be used as a single piece of jewelry for an outfit. Like this one for example.
Hairstyles from the previous site.
Some of these are quite affordable, some would be nice gifts.
Pewter or silver plated inexpensive celtic hair ornaments.
This site has vintage style Victorian hair jewelry.