Thoughts on Angel…I am reminded of the interview piece Joss has on the VHS version of Becoming Pt 2 (when Buffy must send a restored Angel to Hell at the climax). In brief he says that he decided that he wanted to pull away all of Buffy’s support structure to make her truly self-reliant. I suspect he’s doing the same with Angel. If he’s going to regain focus and perspective in regards to just what the Powers-the-Be want him to do, no one can do it for him, its gotta be all him.
Cordy, Wes and Gunn have been and are trying to be his conscious, and he’s got a friggin soul for that–plus, for friends, they’re being awfully judgemental. I mean, it was getting to be like a daily intervention with those three. I suspect the writers need them to regain some perspective too and recognize Angel is a leader again.
Regarding Buffy…I don’t know that Joss isn’t pulling something similar with Buffy. Perhaps the character was becoming too fragmented in her commitments. She was trying to become recommitted to slaying and her watcher while being committed to her relationship with Riley and failing a little at both. I don’t think she was wrong to be angry with Riley (it was akin to finding out your lover is shooting drugs with a prostitute IMHO) or that she was to blame for his (you should pardon the borrowing of a term from recent headlines) disenfranchisement.
Riley, who seemed to have lost his place in the world after the dismantling of the Initiative, had definitely become needy or displaced from Buffy because IMHO he was displaced from himself and never allowed himself time or energy to adjust to such a massive life change. Instead, he threw himself into Buffy and her mission and when she couldn’t make him her whole life the way he’d made her his (lots of pronouns), he was, of course, disappointed.
Taking the whole–should Buffy and Riley be together question out of the equation for now with the newly re-upped Soldier Boy off–I think its at least logical and necessary for each of them to be taken away from each other to refocus their energy and evaluate and re-form their goals and personhoods (a word?).
A Crossover: I wouldn’t be surprised and I wouldn’t mind seeing Buffy and Angel working together and helping each other through this rough time so long as the writers don’t go soft and sappy and try to rekindle a relationship. I think they could do it as friends and still have it work effectively with just undertones of their feelings without throwing them into a romantic situation again.
As far as Xander, despite PLD’s comment during the show about Xander’s being loyal to buffy, I think he’s been a pretty big pr!ck a lot of the time. He’s always great at giving Buffy advice about her love life when he has no business doing so. And he’s great at telling her what guys to see and not see when he’s not mooning over her. Let’s not forget who didn’t tell Buffy that Willow was trying to restore Angel’s soul in Becoming (pt 2) and who encouraged Faith to go after Angel when he returned from Hell.
Personally, I think he was out of line and that it was a mistake to make her feel guilty about her behavior. (Since when did Xander get so mature and/or have the right to call anyone on their behavior; also, Buffy is right and Xander obviously knew it given his actions–he was taking Anya for granted and making jokes at her expense.)
I think it would’ve been a better moment and a good means to reestablish Giles as her watcher and father-figure if he’d confronted Buffy. Had him talk to her and rather than laying on guilt with accusations of “taking Riley for granted” the same end (Buffy going after him) could have been achieved by helping her realize that it wasn’t who was more right or more wrong, but about (1) does she love him and want to keep him in her life and (2) is she willing to tell him that.
I also wouldn’t have sent Buffy running after him (great secret commandos if we know where their helicopters land!). I would have allowed her to sit and really think over the question.
Of course, its always a lot easier to write changes to something you’ve already seen playout–its a lot harder to write them before you see them acted.
My six-cents worth (not to be confused with sixth-sense)!
(Hope it all made regular sense…)