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That being said, the part about the embryos is my bigger problem with it, because although the Church doesn’t agree with IVF for the above reasons, there is no reason I can see that this should have an impact on non-Catholics. Destroying embryos is something that is can be considered wrong as a general rule for everyone, if you consider it to be murder.
I completely understand that the embryos are all meant to be used in the attempt to become pregnant, and that some of them are saved to have more children later. However, there is a big difference, in my mind, between deliberately creating, say, 10 embyros when you KNOW you want only 2 or 3 children, and having children the natural way and possibly losing a couple of fertilized eggs in the process, because they are not viable, or don’t implant, or whatever. In some cases, there is even selective reduction AFTER they have implanted successfully, because too many of them do, and the woman doesn’t want or can’t have multiples.
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That’s very reasonable, but please consider this. If you believe that God directed evolution, which I suspect you do (very different from creationism) then God designed a system very similar to that used for IVF. The health of each fertilized egg is randomly distributed, and the body has been designed to spontaneously abort ones which don’t meet minimal standards - no doubt because it is evolutionarily advantageous not to spend energy on fetuses which are not going to make it. I’d guess that no one knows how many fertilized eggs in an IVF environment will be acceptable - thus producing more than are likely to be used is not so much different from what God, in your view, has set up for us (or nature in my view.)
Now certainly no one should be forced to go through IVF, but if someone does, isn’t it better for embryos that don’t make the cut to have some benefit to humanity, rather than just being discarded?
Some vegetarians feel very strongly about the evil of killing animals for food. They are a minority, but so is your position. Do you think it is right for that minority to force you into vegetarianism? I don’t want to get into the merits of vegetarianism, but once you allow one minority with strong moral views to override the will of the majority, you might as well allow all of them.