My wife and I might be in the market for a home later this summer. We’ve been doing some preliminary searching, and we’re trying to decide between a few options. I’m not looking for advice, but I’m just curious how others feel.
One option is to build a brand-new house. It would be pricey, but we could get the options that we want easily, and it would probably be a few years before it had any major maintenance expenses. There’s a home builder around here with a good reputation, so I’m not too worried about the stereotypical “shoddy new home construction.” I’m fond of this home plan, but it’s probably way out of our price range. This is probably more feasible. But how quickly do options like nice countertops and Pergo floors add up? It seems like it could be easy to go in over our heads.
Another option is to buy a condo. I know that HOAs and condo boards aren’t popular around here, but we lived in a nice condo in St. Louis a few years ago and liked not having to take care of the yard or pay to fix the siding or the roof. Of course, you do pay for the no-maintenance lifestyle, and there aren’t many decent condo options up here, at least that I can find. The condo market seems to be saturated with downtown high-rises, which aren’t an option for me, my wife, and our two kids. And most of the condos seem to be built with the builders-grade crap that you end up having to replace after a few years anyway.
Of course, you can also buy an existing house. My wife has become quite enamored with some of the small towns around here, and we’ve looked at a couple of 80- to 100-year-old homes, but there are flaws - small kitchens, small closets, bathrooms that are are down the hall or on a different floor than the bedrooms. And there’s always something to fix. We actually looked at a 5-bedroom, 2-bath Victorian listed for $195,000 last weekend, just to see what you can get for that kind of money. But as soon as we walked in, we realized it would need an incredible amount of work. It would basically have to be gutted to studs and rebuilt, inside and out. And we don’t have time for that. That’s an extreme example, but even our 30-year-old house in Kansas City ended up needing thousands of dollars worth of work in the 2 1/2 years we lived there.
My wife likes to read parenting blogs like Dooce, where crazy young parents with small children tear out and rebuild their bathrooms and kitchens. We are not fixer-uppers. The thought of cleaning the dishes in the bathtub or tearing out a vanity and replacing it make me want to curl up into a little ball. In our last house, we tried to repaint our bathroom. We got most of the walls done, but we never did finish painting the trim, and we just lived with it half-painted for about a year.
So what would you be inclined do? Buy new? Buy old and renovate?