I am a friend on her Opal Cat fb page and I don’t have that message.
Shocking and sad. I met her several times in person and used to help her with the Fathom boards. May she RIP.
It was on her personal page, posted by her mother.
Me too. Even when I got too fat to wear it, I kept it. RIP Opal.
For those of us that don’t have access, can you fill us in?
Exactly. We rarely chatted online, even way back when, but this is very sad news.
It’s been a while since I thought of her, to be honest, but she was an institution around here and will be missed. RIP, Opal.
The only information given was that she had died.
Wow! She was a legend here.
I hope she has found the peace that seemed to so often elude her in life.
Let’s not speculate in advance of the facts. This is shocking news about a major figure here – one known to everyone through her online persona, and to many of us who have met her in person. Let’s give everyone a chance to process the news without turning it into a prurient scandal.
twickster, for the SDMB
Opal was the first person on the SDMB I ever talked to online.
I watched her struggle and fight serious and sometimes crippling depression for 13 years, and we tried to help each other a couple of times. We butted heads in public now and then, but privately we shared more, talking as two people suffering from depression can. When my depression was finally cured I hoped that she had also found something to help her, and that she had moved on to happier things, but a review of the items she posted out there recently are saddening.
I don’t have any closing words.
RIP.
We hadn’t interacted in years, but she is (and will remain) a legend of the board.
So sorry to hear this.
There are no words. She was a star player here. Not every Doper makes that big of an impact on these boards. She will be missed.
- Goodbye Opal.
I’ve known Opal online for almost half my fucking life. We always talked about how we should meet, but we never did. Always figured we’d get together eventually. Fuck, this is sad. I’m going to go cry some.
I remember when Dominic was Nicky.
This. Very sad.
Very sorry to hear it. Hail and farewell, Opal…
Oh, Opal.
I’m very sorry to hear this. I never interacted with her but it was impossible to hang out on the Dope for long without hearing something from or about her. My condolences to her family and those here who knew her.
Yes, she did indeed.
My deepest condolences to her family and loved ones.
Damn.