Practice Makes Perfect
501 Spanish Verbs
Dict in backpack
Invitaciones
I too took Spanish for three years and it did nothing for me. Then one semester I had a combination of (a) the perfect teacher for me and (b) a girlfriend who spoke Spanish natively, and everything clicked together perfectly. That’s the luck of the draw, but you don’t need to have a confluence of events like that.
However, I do suggest taking a first-semester college Spanish class to guide your studies. My Spanish class used this book, “Invitaciones”, which although being a textbook could also serve as a great independent study guide if you do all the exercises in order. It’s a “workbook”, meaning you actually do the exercises by writing in the book and it’s mostly exercises, with enough explanation that you can do them. It’s better with a teacher, but it’s good by itself too. It comes with video and audio CDs and the book has a lot of exercises that go off what you see and hear in the CDs. (Which were filmed at Southwestern College here in San Diego, BTW.) The actors will never crack Hollywood but the audio and video brings you gradually into Spanish as spoken by native speakers; it’s stiff and grammatical when you need it to be and later (in the second part, especially) it relaxes and you get more of a taste of how native speakers actually talk to each other.
Other than that, immersion, immersion, immersion. I don’t know where you live, but if there’s any way you can throw yourself into environments where you’ll have to speak Spanish–a good time to do this is when you’ve covered almost but not quite a semester’s worth of material IMO–that will really help you seal the deal. You’ll be frustrated at first, but gradually it will become easier and easier to say what you want to say. It’s all about practice, practice, practice.
501 Spanish Verbs is an ESSENTIAL reference. It has a decent verb dictionary but what’s really important is that it has full conjugation tables in every tense for most of the more useful verbs in the language. Pretty much all the irregularities are covered, too.
The Practice Makes Perfect series of workbooks is pretty decent, although I’ve only done the very beginning of the verb tenses one.
Oh yeah—Immersion, immersion, immersion.
Like baseball? Here is a baseball English-Spanish dictionary; start there, find your local Spanish-language baseball radio or TV station, and try to follow the games that way. If you’re using the radio, a baseball scorecard ($2 at Sports Authority or any similar store) will help you keep track of your progress in understanding what’s going on. The Major League Baseball website has a “Gameday” feature that will show you the current progress of every game so that if you get hopelessly lost you can set yourself on track and start over.
Finally, this is my Spanish-English dictionary of choice. It translates a lot of Commonwealth and American slang to Spanish and a lot of Castilian and Latin-American slang to English pretty well, and includes explanations in English of Spanish-language idioms, political parties and government bodies, cultural stuff, etc. as well as a section in English about life in Spanish-speaking countries and a section in Spanish about life in English-speaking countries. The latter is great because you can tie the language in to something you’re already familiar with–the culture and government of your home country.