Where I work, there seem to be a few women in my department who have a lot, no, a LOT, of life issues.
Drugs/alcohol abuse is a common factor. Another is a proliferation of ex-husbands, all POS quality. Another is the “promiscuity” factor. A loooonnnnng list of sex partners. Also, a couple of the ones in my department were talking about the great men they were engaged to, yet, had a last minute streak of one-night-stands in the months/weeks before their weddings, and weren’t overly shy about letting people in my department know about it.
On Facebook, they, semi-regularly, note their successful completion of self-improvement classes :eek:, yet, 2 weeks later, talk of going to the huge kegger parties, being ready to slap the shit out of bitches who looked at their men wrong, etc…
A couple have daughters who are out of control, sleeping with the whole neighborhood, ditching school, police problems, etc…which I interpret as a “like mother like daughter” kind of thing. May be wrong, but, who cares?
At any rate, in my conversations with them, they seem, MOL, normal. Sure, they have strong opinions, but, they are coherent, and don’t seem too evil; they don’t seem to be irrational, but have just made bad choices, which they are having a problem coping with. It seems, to me, that with a little “careful treatment”, they would be “normal”. The consensus of the guys with whom I work is that these women are broken. They contend that this kind of woman will ALWAYS be having this type of problem, and if you fix the 20 problems that they have now, another 40 will arise.
So, to the main:
What do you think? Can these women be fixed? How? Have you, or do you know anybody who has successfully made a match with somebody like this?