Just for getting started, get a nylon-stringed guitar [classical or flamenco won’t matter at this point]. Electric and Country (steel) strings will bite through virgin fingers like piano wire through a target’s neck – well, in fact it is a certain gauge of piano wire after all…
Once you’ve learned the basics and built up some calluses on your fingertips, you can switch to electric or country (if you wish) and not have to worry about the pain of a two-hour practice session disuading you from ever touching “that damned thing” again.
Like any other training, set a practice/study schedule (short at the start and increasing up to a limit) and stick to it. You’ll burn out less quickly (or, hopefully, not burn out at all).
Find a human to teach and coach you. A trained teacher is better than this cool guy I know who plays in a band, since the teacher will know how to start you out and help you progress based on your skills – as opposed to showing you *these really cool licks *and tricks well before you’re ready to understand them. IMHO YouTube and other Internet video-teaching offerings are horrible for this reason. Even group lessons at the community center can be good for starting out.
Also, something one of my teachers said on the first day of class: Don’t be afraid to go find a different teacher. Not all teachers are good teachers. Whittle away the worst and you’ll find that not all good teachers fit your style of learning.
Don’t give up. Some things will be easy, some things will be difficult – and the things will never be the same for two different people.
Be willing (and eager) to make mistakes and be heard making them. Nobody expects you to out-play Joe Satriani until you’ve got a few years of experience under your belt. One of the benefits of learning the guitar is gaining the knowledge that you can make mistakes, even in public, and still not get shot for them. I’ve heard violin training isn’t so forgiving. :dubious:
Lastly (and I know I’ve been very verbose already) some advice for after you’ve learned the basics: Reach out beyond the guitar. Understanding a bit of music theory, musicology, the physics of sound production, the electronics of sound engineering, and different styles from what you love playing can really improve the stuff you love playing.
—G!
“Forget all about that macho shit
And learn how to play guitar!”
. —John Mellencamp
. *Play Guitar
*. Uh-Huh