In Safari’s Preferences, click on AutoFill, you can turn off this feature there.
Seems like the offending application has to be told not to do this, instead of telling Address Book not to share the info with other apps.
After you type “IN,” press “Return” before it has a chance to autofill. It will enter the text as you want it and take you to the next field just the way “Tab” does.
Good potential with this program, but not up to Apple standard.