Well, most of you are abed, but it’s been a busy evening.
First, Bobbio and Bibs, I too am grateful for people like. I’m glad you weren’t hurt at the fire, Bobbio.
It is snowing gangbusters here again, and tomorrow’s commute will be dicey. Temps, with windchill are supposed to been in the teens and maybe as low as 5 degrees. Brrrrrrrrrr. You Northeasterners and Canadians take your winter back right now!
We had “The Talk” with our daughter tonight. All things considered, it went much better than I expected it would. Things were very tense a couple of times, but somehow we managed to hash through the issues. She’s agreed, albeit reluctantly to the following:
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When it’s time for college, she’ll attend an in-state school. If the boyfriend and she are still so in love, he can move out here. We will do all we can to help her get to college including trying to pay for some of it. Even if it means downsizing and buying a cheaper house.
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We’ve agreed she can keep in contact with the boyfriend via phone and e-mail, but he cannot, under any circumstances come out here. I was very surprised and pleased that my husband offered this on his own.
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We’ve agreed she can have computer and phone access and have a social life.
The husband and the daughter apologized to each other for the hurtful things they said to one another.
To be sure, my daughter is not exactly pleased at the whole in-state college thing, but even she admitted that she did not expect my husband to relent on the no contact thing with the boyfriend.
We are not “punishing” her in any way. We figure she (and us!) have been through enough for the last few days.
I expect there will still be some rocky times, but I am hoping we can get back to some semblence of normality here. This is the toughest thing we’ve had endure with her. We’ve been blessed, as both of our kids are really great, and we know that. We never doubted her intentions of starting college and finishing it, but it’s far too easy to let things slide when real life intrudes. I had plans for attending college and going on to law school. It never happened because the hubby and I met when we were nineteen, we dated, we lived together, then we got married, we struggled financially, I had my daughter, then three years later, I had my son. Then we were just too busy trying to SURVIVE. I used myself as a perfect example what can happen.
Thanks everyone for the well-wishes and hugs. They really did make me feel somewhat better and were very much appreciated.
Nava, nice pictures! You’ll be pleased to know that we’ve been WoW playing fools these past few weeks. Tonight we actually broke out our lvl 59 characters and ran around with them for the first time in probably a year. We’re more than halfway to 60, so we’re good and ready for the new expansion pack release next week.
Happy month-long anniversary taxi. Before you know it, you’ll be hitting 10, then 20 years, and you’ll wonder where the time has gone.
Congrats to Mr. Gotti! I hope your celebration was nice!
I’m going to get ready to watch the news now. This evening’s commute was epic and nightmarish for many folks. I want to see if the forecast has changed any, because last I heard, the snow was supposed to stop at 7:00 pm and it’s now going on 11:00 pm.
Sleep tight, everyone.