I’d stay out of Uptown, unless you’re a single guy with no desire to date or have children ever. My husband lived there when we met, and I was terrified to leave his apartment after dark. I made him walk me to my car, even when I found a space right out front. I was constantly hassled there.
(And I worked in East Rogers Park for years and loved it there, so I’m no ninny!)
West Rogers Park might be a great place to look. It’s from Ridge to Kedzie and Devon to Howard. There are some dicey spots, but it’s a really nice ethnic, family friendly area overall. There’s a huge Indian and Pakistani community (no, I’m not confusing the two, they really do both live and work in the same area) on Devon with incredible restaurants, Sari shops, local grocers and “stuff stores.” There’s a Hassidic Jewish neighborhood along Touhy (really neat to drive there on a Friday night when it’s DEAD-OLA after dark 'cause everyone’s inside. It’s the only time a drive down Touhy is worth it.) with the attendant bagel shops, kosher chinese take-out and some more great little markets. It’s within an easy walk or bus ride to Thai and Ethiopian areas, as well.
It’s within a stone’s throw of Evanston and Northwestern University, where there are some great student performances, if you’re into plays, music or art. Never know when the next big star is going to show up with Northwestern on their resume! You could have some great “I saw him when he was a nobody!” stories in a few years. There’s also a fantastic shiny new movie complex in Evanston, half of which is mainstream stuff and the other half devoted to artsy and independant films. It’s so lovely to see art films in a theater where you don’t stick to the floor. Shopping in Evanston is sublime, with hundreds of tiny independantly owned stores, as well as the big three: Borders, Starbucks and Barnes and Noble. (Ick. There’s also some great independant booksellers, including this wonderful little old Chinese man who can get you anything under the sun.)
Need to do a little home improvement? No problem, you’re within an easy ride to Home Depot, Lowes, Ace Hardware and countless little mom ‘n’ pops.
And of course, there’s Target. Right at Howard and Kedzie. Aaah. Consumerism.
Like parks? Indian Boundary is a wonderful place with a small walking trail, a tiny zoo and a really cool “jungle gym” designed by an actual kid! It totally rocks, even if you’re a little older than the average “kid.”
There’s lot of community theater art classes there, for kids and adults. (damn, I can’t get Indian Boundary to hyperlink correctly. You can search for it at the Warren Park listing ->)Warren Park is the one to check out if you’re into walking, jogging, biking or golf. It’s 90 acres of beauty in the middle of the urban bleak. They also have batting cages, professional level skateboarding setup, in-line and ice skating. They even have West African drumming classes!
If you like your culture on a small scale, there are innumerable coffee shops that attract local talent, drum circles, etc. Larger, of course, is a short train ride to all of Chicago’s fantastic theaters, museums, etc.
No matter what your religious or spiritual background, there’s bound to be a place of worship really near by. (Including a pretty thriving neo-pagan community, but you didn’t hear that from me!
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