child going into speech therapy

I had to get therapy for a couple of years as a little kid. My problem was essentially that my brain was running so fast that my mouth couldn’t keep up. I had to learn to slow down so I was understandable. I also had problems with sh and ch, and according to my voice teacher last year, I still don’t quite do sh right – well enough for speaking, but not necessarily singing. Perfectionist? Her? Heck yeah.

I still have to stop and take a breath and organize my thoughts and start a sentence over again, and I can have a tendency to babble, because my brain still runs ahead of my mouth. But it’s not a problem for me these days.

Don’t worry about it. Some kids have problems, and sometimes it’s obvious why and sometimes it’s not.

“I still have to stop and take a breath and organize my thoughts and start a sentence over again SOMETIMES…”

I should know better than to post before coffee.

My son’s situation was similar, autz. I could understand him, but I was about the only one. He talked a lot and, like your little guy, had a good vocabulary–he just couldn’t pronounce most sounds correctly and displayed some unusual substitutions. (Example: Where most kids might say “widdle” instead of “little”, he would say “yiddo”…he subbed the “y” sound a LOT.)

Anyway, he was identified in kindergarten as having a severe/profound speech deficit, and went into speech therapy. By the end of the year, he was finished. Once it clicked, it all seemed to come together for him.

I think it’s very positive that your son is going into therapy before he starts school. I found that my son’s speech impediment made the beginning phonics work almost impossible. It’s hard to understand how the “st” works when you call those big red things at intersections “yop yigns,” you know? By the end of that year, he was completely discouraged with reading, because the whole program was quite phonics-heavy. (Something to keep in mind when he starts school, if he’s still having speech problems.)

He’ll do fine, don’t worry. And if it helps, I cried like a baby when I talked to the speech therapist. :slight_smile:

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karol

autz, my daughter was the same way – no discernible reason for her late speech, but she was unintelligible, and wouldn’t say the letter S under any circumstances. A lot of her problems, interestingly, were resolved BEFORE she went into speech therapy – she had a wonderful preschool teacher who figured out that her mind was moving so much faster than her tongue that she didn’t even TRY to say words correctly. She worked with her slowing her speech down, and within a month about 90% of it popped out almost normal. The other 10% (most notably revolving around the letter S) took speech therapy to resolve.

Sometimes I think really bright kids have a tendency to late speech. I’ve heard – don’t know if it’s true or apocryphal, so I’m happy to be proven wrong – that Einstein didn’t speak at all till he was past age 4. And I’ve known other bright kids who didn’t speak, or speak clearly, till late.

You’re doing the right thing now. Don’t beat yourself up over it!

Queen Tonya, my daughter was not a pacifier baby, but was a self-taught reader at age 3-1/2 and started preschool at age 2 so was around many, many other people from a young age and very knowledgeable of words, even though I was a stay-at-home mom. I honestly don’t believe the quantity of social experience or pacifier use made a difference. My son, OTOH, LIVED for his pacifier, but has had zero speech problems. Go figure.

My oldest daughter, now 16, did everything early, so, what a shock, when my second daughter, now 12, did everything late! She didn’t walk until 14 months, and when she turned 3, she didn’t have any words at all! She would make animal sounds, so we knew she could make sounds, and she clearly understood everything we said to her, but she just didn’t talk! She started talking very shortly after starting speech therapy, at age 3 and 1/2. At first, she was only saying single words, but soon started putting sentences together. Turns out, she is both left-handed, and gifted, which I’ve been told are often associated with late speech. My youngest daughter, now 3 and 1/2 is also speech-delayed. She talks, but doesn’t prononunce her words correctly. Sometimes, even I can’t understand her! She has been in speech therapy since she was 2 (at that age, she barely said any words at all). her first speech therapist said that she was something of a perfectionist, and didn’t want to say the words until she could say them correctly, and was having trouble “planning how to make sounds”. This makes sense, as, even now, I’ll ask her a question, and I can see her actively thinking. I believe she already knows the answer to the question, but is thinking how to make the sounds necesssary to form the words.

I’m sure you’re a great mom (you certainly come across as one); be grateful that speech impediment/delay is almost always treatable.

BTW, my 12-year-old remembers speech therapy quite fondly, if that makes you feel any better.

I had speech therapy when I was a kid. I didn’t have a problem like some of the other Dopers in here, I was just lisping my S sounds.

I remember it being about as fun as a “learning” experience could be. She used a lot of rewards as motivation and I quit lisping, so it was about as successful as you could want. But I think I was a mild case, compared to what some of the posters are talking about.

My younger brother went to speech therapy. The only reason he dodn’t liek is was he was the baby of the family and my mom cried on his first day of school.

But then he graduated out a year later because he was too gifted for Special Education.

You know, this makes me kind of concerned about my half-brother. He’s about 3 right now, and has a very limited vocabulary. He didn’t even talk at all for quite a while, but surprisngly my dad and stepmother didn’t seem too concerned (they both work in the medical field, I would have thought they would have done something about it very early on)

My tongue is a bit too large for my mouth.

That means if I am not a bit careful, I spit when I talk, especially if I talk fast. I learned that from a speech therapist, in the third grade, in Fairfax County Public Schools.

It might seem a little thing. But, let’s look at it from the point of view of a second grader.

When I talk, everyone leans back away from me.

The teacher doesn’t call on me to read aloud in class very much.

Everyone laughs when I do read aloud.

Reading aloud is the only reading class we have. (This was in the Philadelphia Public Schools.)

Oh, I get it, I must be stupid.

The teacher agrees, and puts me into “Remedial Reading.” This is the famous special class for dumb kids.

Now I move to Alexandria. The reading class there is little paperback books that you get assigned by the teacher. You read your book, and then you take a test. Everyone else is using red, green or blue books. I get a brown book. Right. Remedial Reading again, I guess I really am dumb.

I go to speech therapy with a nice lady who makes me do most of the talking. She makes me take a sip of water before every answer. After a week, I don’t spit when I talk. She explains to me about clearing my mouth, and holding my tongue back. She never mentions that there is something unusual about me.

Back in reading class I get my new book, after finishing the brown books. A black book. Man, I must be really dumb; I ain’t got blue yet. But oddly enough the rest of the kids are not calling me dumb. I figure they just don’t know yet.

Couple of weeks later, I finish the black book. Teacher tells me I am finished with the colored books. I can go to the library, now, instead of reading class. Turns out I read on a seventh grade level.

Wow. And I don’t spit when I talk, either!

Speech therapy is a good thing.

Tris

Do it. Definately do it. Make sure he understands that this doesn’t have anything to do with his intelligence, though.

I had six years of speech therapy. It’s amazingly helpful stuff. Be sure to read out loud to them and then have 'em read to you.

Good luck with it!

Cheers,
Andy
who vividly remembers sitting in front of a mirror practicing…

i was in speech therapy from ages 5 to 11. i guess however i talked when i was young was just passed off as little kid talk, but when i moved in kindergarten my new school evaluated me and put me in speech therapy. it really wasn’t a big deal, i left class every once in a while, once or twice a week at an appointed time, and went down to the speech therapist. i had problems with j, ch, k, s, and z sounds. it wasn’t a big deal at all, especially since it was free therapy since i was at a public school. i remember doing all these flash cards and things like that, using mirrors, lots of stuff. and the younger your kid is when he goes into therapy, the better off he’ll be, because it’s much easier to correct these problems at a younger age.

go for it.

I had speech therapy as a child. I LOVED it. I threw a hissy fit when they told me I was talking fine and I didn’t have to go any more.

I was late rather than premature, my parents talked to me, read books with me etc all the time and I had a very full vocabulary. I just hadn’t worked out how to make certain sounds.

My lil’ angel is 3 as well. She is autistic and needs speech, among other therapies. I’d say, be very thankful and grateful that speech is the only thing that may be “wrong” with your child. Wrong to look at it as he’s got something “wrong” with him. He needs a little help, that’s all.

I’ve gone through quite a lot with my daughter. Trying to get services is a difficult process and makes you weary of government BS. And, in Arizona, it’s really, REALLY hard to get speech therapy due to a shortage of personnel. Just take it one day at a time and you’ll be alright.

Just my 2 cents…

My son, now 16, began speech therapy at age 3; he was identified by the county and eligible for the county-run program through his daycare provider. There were many sounds that he just could not pronounce and he made many substitutions, which made it very hard to understand him. The most memorable substitution for me was B for G, as in “Berman” Sheperd. He stayed in speech therapy through 3rd grade, although he still has a bit of a lateral lisp and trouble pronouncing the CH/SH sound if he talks too quickly.

The speech therapy made a really big difference for him, especially starting pre-school age. Both of his parents had speech therapy while in elementary school, and interestingly enough when I was 3-4, I too substituted B for G! The county tested him and provided all the necessary speech therapy, at no cost to me; I worked with him on the different sounds using “flash” cards. There were times that he would get frustrated, but we’d just continue working, sometimes sort of making a game of it. The earlier that the therapy is started, the better it is for the child, btw.

Good luck to your son!

He’ll probably be talking better in no time! I had a stuttering problem when I was younger, and it completely vanished in a year or so.

My premature son underwent 3 years of ST. He didn’t start talking until 2 1/2 years of age and was (obviously) very speech delayed. He is nearing 6 now and seems to be all caught up, speech-wise. I still have doubts about his hearing although he has passed hearing tests.

Thanks for your reassuring words everyone. I’ll call tomorrow to make our first appointment.

In the meantime, we’ve been practicing everyday, “S…nake, s…now, s…ky, s…kate”

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