It simple seems reasonable to set a number on how many times you may ask for a cite before being accused of harassment, or else to state forthrightly that you can ask for a unlimited number of cites without being accused of harassment. If someone does something other than ask for a cite, then specify what you may do and may not do, to be considered harassing. If I’m extremely polite, and I phrase it “Please, if it’s not troubling you too much, I have asked for a cite, and haven’t gotten one, from you times now, and I’d appreciate your supplying me with one–I don’t want to assume you simply don’t have one, but I’m afraid that is the conclusion I will eventually reach, as well as a lower view of your integrity, if I do not get the cite I asked for. I thank you in advance. Peace out,” or some such, can I avoid charges of harassment indefinitely? Or is three and I’m harassing?