The act of oppression lacks positive moral value, in my opinion. Therefore an oppressor lacks positive moral value. I do not reject that and do not attempt to justify rejecting it.
I’m confused with the whole line of questioning, so please do retain the initiative.

You’re saying someone is wrong about correctly assessing who they identify with ?
No. There is a subtle difference between who they identify with/what they identify as and their identity. The former construction specifies that it is up to the person. The latter construction does not.
A person can identify themself as a Martian and be wrong about their identity. If I say that person is wrong about their identity, I can still say they identify themself as a Martian without contradicting myself.
(You can insert any word for “Martian”.)
~Max